Your Change has nothing at all to do with what that man is doing. And, your responses to his abuse of you and the children should be the same whether you are going through the change, have PMS or any other distraction he wants to claim.
Wrong is wrong no matter what is going on with you.
You are demanding correct, moral, ethical, legal and just plain human decent behavior. You don’t have to make excuses for that.
He’s just being his typical asshole self by trying to deflect.
You will only give him fuel for his abusive behaviors toward you and your children if you do not spell out the truth.
The truth will take his power away. ~ JoAnn