How many of you keep your SA’s secret life a secret? I realize there are many reasons to do so: kids, the divorce process, etc… I’m divorced and I’m tired of keeping my mouth shut about my ex-asshole. I’m tired of seeing him walk around in the community like a man to be respected. I’m tired of him expecting me to be the bigger/better person and keep my mouth shut about what a sick man he is…and why should I? He lied to me for years, used me and my children as a front for his secret life of bar whores, prostitutes and morally bankrupt women. I owe him nothing… I’m sure this is not the most eloquent post but I’m feeling very pissed off, triggered and raw right now. Thanks for reading my rant…