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I got this today from DA’s attorney.
Respondent has already complied with this request (filling our release of medical records) and much to his dismay Petitioner has since harassed and badgered Respondent’s counselor while concocting false truths and making unfounded allegations regarding Respondent. Respondent’s treatment has been severally jeopardized due to this malicious behavior. To allow Petitioner further intrusion upon Respondent’s treatment only impales his progression further.
I can’t have peace even when he is gone.
lol @ impale! i think he meant “impede”. though impaling is what SAs constantly seek with their dicks. interesting choice of words.
I’m so pissed, too. I can’t even believe it. It’s malicious of me to make sure he is accountable for my son’s protection? THAT jeopardized his treatment? What progression has he made? NONE. Despite tons of visits and thousands of dollars, he did not slow down one bit…because I sent a few emails to the therapist?
Here is one of my “harassing” emails:
Dr.,
I am disappointed that you did not call me back this week as you told me you would during our phone call Monday evening.
At this point, I have no choice but to turn this matter over to my attorney on Monday morning, the cost of which will be incurred by your client.Sincerely,
TeriHe avoided me- he admitted as much to me. It was just part of the routine. I called about once every six weeks for an update, he avoided me for a couple of weeks, and I would finally speak with him. After he suggested I ask for a polygraph, I just figured it was worthless. The last time I contacted him was in June until after the hearing when I let him know that there was new evidence. And he told me that I was right all along.
Teri,
His attorney cannot communicate directly with you, even if it’s an email. I think she’s in trouble??? Daisy?Lovely lawyer speak (sarcasm). Hang in there Teri, I’m sure there’s more to come…just breathe. My brother went through a nasty divorce and it’s unreal the stuff my ex-sister in law tried to pull. But in the end God knows and sees the truth…he got fully custody of both his children, which by the way, was granted by a female judge! (woo-hoo) Women are way smarter, they can smell BS anywhere!
Teri, they are trying to get a rise out of you. Vent all your anger here. Be calm and collected to them and let your attorney handle all correspondence. Fuck ’em. You’re winning and they know it. I will tell you again and keep telling you that you’ve already won because you know who he is and he absolutely can’t stand it that you know. He will keep trying to win but he can’t because he can’t unring that bell. So again I say FUCK ‘EM. Calm, cool and colllected. It’ll make him/them nuts!
Hugs,
DaisyThanks, guys. Your voices are so wonderful.
Bev, it came in at the end of the day, so I don’t know what my attorney says, but I can imagine.
Daisy, I hear you. I have learned that the only response is none.
I am thinking about the timing- I think he is trying to keep me from sharing his history with his inpatient program (the better to fool them, of course). I’ll talk with my attorney but my reaction is fine, I’m done. I’ve tried to do the right thing for my kids by making sure he is accountable. But nobody else seems to care if he really gets better, so why should I?There you go, Teri. There’s your answer. If he doesn’t care, why should you? In addiction, you cannot force someone to recover. They have to WANT TO recover.
That is, of course, if sex addiction really is an “addiction”!
Much love, Claire
I know Daisy is right. I also know that killing him would be fun. You have done all you can do. No therapy of any kind can help anybody unless they want it. He doesn`t. Let your attorney do all the talking. Vent here and I will work on my voodoo doll of him. I may google “evil magic spells” 🙂
Daisy, no offense, but the divorce process sucks! There should be a law that if you are divorcing someone with a known serious mental impairment and too much money, you should just get all the money and the kids and a restraining order. Period.
It is kind of satisfying to think of dip shit locked up with no chance of sex. He is probably miserable and furious. maybe he will have a fatal heart attack?
I knew going in that he was still in denial. So did his therapist. He’s halfway through now and still doing this crap, so I’m thinking that of course I was right again. He is not going to get better and I just better get ready. I think he is going to try to take us all down in flames.
Teri
these are tactics the DA and his lawyer are going to use over and over again, so like Daisy told you, dont respond or react to them,,,,
but it is clear that they are grabbing on to anything to make a case that does not exist, this kind of correspondence should make you feel more confident of your position.I was thinking about the timing too. “Well there you go it’s all her fault I can’t get better! I will focus on screwing her over instead of fixing myself!” He is deflecting shit your way. Actually its kind of scary Teri, without his sex fix, he may turn into an even bigger monster. I would give him the silent treatment from now on. That will really drive him nuts.
Teri… Holy Shit!!! Thats insane… speaking from some one who has been there, done that… and is still doing it (I was served w/ something from my ex yesterday.. we’ve been divorced for 12ish years now) you are right to stay calm and DO NOT let them see that they can get to you… even for a second. That just fuels the fire. Good for you for venting here and keeping a calm exterior! So glad you have a lawyer to back you up too. Just keep breathing… and try to find something to laugh about when this kind of stuff comes up… for me… laughter is the BEST medicine in dealing with my idiot XH!!
Love—- Natale
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