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Ok, my old thread was: Best yet!
With the “WFT?” statement by my STBXSAH:“I understand I prevented you from making an informed choice when I asked you to marry me.”
He sent a new one that blows that one out of the water: that’s old news:
“I have a sense of marriage and honoring that vow. I have violated it, true but it does not mean I will abandon it.”
He violated the marriage, but he won’t abandon me.
So, what, I’m supposed to be thankful he’ll only CHEAT and not ABANDON ME?
I love the “I have a sense of …” It’s pretty cut and dried dude. they explain it pretty clearly in the ceremony. “Keeping yourself only unto HER, forsaking ALL OTHERs, as long as you both shall live.”
No Star Wars “sense the vow” mysticism involved.
That means he is not going to let her go. Run for the hills, Lynn. Seriously. I am afraid for you. That crazy mother fucking bastard…
I think you’re close lynn, but not quite.
My reading is:
I still want to be married even though I broke the vows,
and even though I did break the vows, I’m still a better person than you because I don’t want to abandon it like you do.Yeah, since the new “win you back” movement, there was a $1,300 deposit put into the bank. I may be wrong about his running out of money. We’ll see. At least i can pay the mtg, van pmt, cable, power, and Visa now. Yeehah!
Don’t worry, I put in four other applications yesterday. I KNOW this won’t last.
Just keep your head down and pay your bills. I hope a good job comes through soon because really you don’t want this to last. You want him gone, gone, gone.
It is in my personal account. He can only deposit there, not withdraw, or initiate any automatic payments. Thank you for reminding me I need to go take my name off the joint account so I won’t worry about the poor management affecting my credit.
One more bridge burned.
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