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Have you guys ever had a terrible dream about your husband cheating on you, even when things have been going well and you wake up pissed of as hell???!!
Nope. It’s always the waking world that is the real nightmare. I did have a dream recently in which some man was giving me the most romantic, passionate kiss. I haven’t been kissed like that in YEARS. It was wonderful ~ I was so depressed when I woke up. 🙁
Yes…many times Hope. I always wake up feeling like I cannot breath or like I am screaming and no sound comes out…..then I remember trauma hits when you least expect it.
Yes…many times Hope. I always wake up feeling like I cannot breath or like I am screaming and no sound comes out…..then I remember trauma hits when you least expect it.
Yes…many times Hope. I always wake up feeling like I cannot breath or like I am screaming and no sound comes out…..then I remember trauma hits when you least expect it.
Its funny…I have not dreamt of anything loving happening between my husband and I for years and years and years. If I have a dream with him at the center, it is ALWAYS a nightmare.
It is so odd. I used to have nightmares often before SA. It was always my H leaving me and I couldn’t talk to him and get him to listen. I would also have good dreams that involved him. Now, I never dream about him. I have nightmares but not about him. He is never in my dreams at all anymore.
Hope,
I had those a lot….still do. I think it’s the PTSD – your body was so traumatized that it’s trying to work out the horror of it all.
And – I also had those when he was screwing the last granny….so who knows…it could also be intuition.
With these guys – you just never do know.My 11 year old daughter asked me today – why does Daddy wear really nice clothing in the morning with his hair slicked back? (he gets the kids off to school in the a.m. and he then goes for “coffee”). Maybe there is more to the “coffee” than I know. It did make me wonder….maybe a quickie? I guess I need to check his Iphone GPS tracker in the am. It’s so tiring…..isn’t it?
Deb
Deb
Why do you need to check his Iphone? If you find something what will you do? If you don’t find anything what will you do?
If checking his iphone isn’t going to result in change why do it?
Why not spend your energy on something that matters?
EllenI have done that throughout my marriage. I had dreams about him cheating on me before I knew he was cheating on me.
I have nightmares now alot, he is never in any of them probably because being married to him for 25 yrs was a nightmare.
Sometimes I have these thoughts in the middle of the night that I think are dreams but they are so full of clarity. Kind of like messages from God or something to cut through all the crap in my brain and send me a specific message. For example, back in early August, I had been sensing something wasn’t quite right but maybe wasn’t quite ready to face it and then he came home in an incredibly good mood for no reason and lied to me about 3 really minor things. I went to bed…woke up a few hours later to the crystal clear thought of “he’s cheating on me”. Took me a few weeks to gather evidence to prove but of course, was true.
Deb, seriously… Your family is in dire financial straits and your ‘disabled’ husband has the fucking gall to go out for ‘coffee’ every morning? Even if he’s really just ‘hitting’ Starbucks (and not his granny du jour), that’s whack. And Lord help me…he slicks back his hair? Does he wear his cool leather jewelry too?
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