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Well when I went to court this morning, the lawyer and I went through the document before I sign and guess what???? He does not want to keep the boys on his medical insurance. So I just refused to sign. How can I still pay for medical costs. The lawyer called him and then he asked her if I would be willing to pay half. On the one hand he is pushing to get the divorce order in place and then playing these damn games. How the hell can I ever trust him, You have to be sooooooooooo sharp with this trash head.
So sorry Gail!!! You were wise not to sign it. It’s great you read and understand every word cuz he’s pretty slimey…
Bottom feeding, trash head MFSOB, not worth the air he breathes!!!!
You a victim with barely, barely adequate legal protections. Damn.
Carry on strong one!
Yeah …. The lawyer will put it to him now and say, sorry we cannot accept that the kids are not covered. He even lied and said he is paying about 200 dollars more a month for cover. I checked with the medical insurance and that’s not true. Damn man. I also have to be careful now cos this could delay it a bit longer and then I get nothing….. then again… I have managed to survive… in spite of …… Can you believe this sisters? How much lower can he go? These are his own children!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is all about the narcissist’s belief that they should not have to deal with any negative consequences to other of their penis activities. They are entitled to their penis activities and should suffer no loss or inconveniences as a consequence of them.
When are these SA’s going to be called what they are–narcissists? and when are the CSAT’s going to start telling partners what the real costs are of having one in your life?
None of this setting boundaries bullshit. They don’t recognize boundaries. That’s why we had the Jeff idiot and that recent SA on the Married site posting away as if none of the boundaries applied to them.Okay, that was a rant. Thanks for your thread hospitality, Gail.
OK so I know my behaviour is childish now but I sent him an email saying his tools and things that was left in the house is ready for his collection. I will have it at my backdoor as it is placed in the family room and there is really no space there. He sent a mail back saying thank you and that he also wanted his power tools and the tent. I dont want to give him the power tools as we would need it for the house so I said the tent too is outside. He sent a furious email back saying dont leave my tools outside. I didnt respond and it is right outside. I am feeling so angry and real upset now. What are you saying about the boundaries bit Diane. Im feeling blond as well now.
I wish i can do that. Really JoAnn I am so upset today. How are you doing? I was so worried about you. In the meantime I had another biopsy. I know I need to take good care of myself. We will get through all of this, we just have to.
I am so sorry Gail. I can’t believe how low these guys can go. Do you need the tools for working on your house? If so don’t sell them. But maybe you can tell him you will hold them as collateral till he signs to live up to his obligation to you and your children.
Hugs
Moniqueyou so right Monique, but I already put it outside. I should have done that hey. Just cant wait to break free from this trash head
Mine took every tool, power equipment, cleaning supplies, brooms and mops, every framed picture of our kids, my mattress, one piece of every set of sheets I own such as top sheet or fitted sheet. Entire rooms of furniture (of course the nice ones), even my change jar full of coins I had on my bathroom vanity. All while I was away in New England watching my daughter play college field hockey. What an ass and he got into no trouble at all. Be thankful yours didn’t do that. I agree with joann…sell his stuff if you don’t need it or he doesn’t come to get it. If he doesn’t like them to be in the rain too bad….that is his problem, not yours
Gail,
Well, no surprise, right? Everytime you think you might be getting somewhere, he pulls something new (but consistent). He is an ass through and through. You just keep fighting, girl. He isn’t going to break you.Thanks ladies. So yesterday morning I hear him at the back door. He is looking oh so like the victim taking his tools out of the box to make the box easier to carry. Then along comes mother dear. She looks up at my bathroom window and says “She is going to get things very hard in her life”. How’s that for an 82 year old dropping off some curses. Well …. to remind her…. she said nothing nice about her ex-daughter in law when her older son did exactly the same to his wife. I was just a bit smarter in taking the initiative to get a divorce. This poor lady kept going in the marriage until he left her. Well those curses have gone in no other direction but towards her own older son, my SAH’s brother who is now divorced from his second wife, and while the second wife lives in the house which he purchased for them, he is living in a broken caravan on the property. I need say nothing further. Shame on the mother.
Hi Gail, im new to the sisterhood and hvee been readintg all that you’ve been through and you are inspirational. My 21 year old son and his girlfriend live with me and on a few occasions he has been disrespectful and unkind to her. I call him on it every time and make sure he know he’ll go before she does if that continues, out of my house that is, enabling our sons to jerks no matter how much we love them sets them up for failure and by all accounts your soon to be ex is certainly that. Also just an observation but when looking at this group of ladies profile pics you are all so gorgeous, if looks mean anything your are all set!
Thanks Kristen thats so kind of you. Yeah well I slept on all of this and decided to just allow this order to go through with him not wanting to keep the boys on his medical insurance. It is clear he does not have the money and I really want to get something at the end of this month. So yep should be sorted hopefully this week still
Gail, your ex sounds like my ex. I’m letting my youngest live with him once a new order is signed. He agreed to my terms via attorneys.
Guess what? The first proposed draft didn’t have half the stuff I asked for AND his atty (with his approval) added some things that we never discussed…..like him claiming her on taxes for 2013. NOT HAPPENING!!!
I sent it back via my atty with a list of corrections and my ex is trying to tell my daughter I’m the one stalling. I showed her the papers and said “Now tell me who is stalling???”
Stupid fuckers…..these guys should know we are not going to blindly sign shit, yet they try.
I feel for ya sister.
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