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So I went for an interview. Things were just at its lowest. But then again thats how it seems i think. We will rise again ladies. So I got this new job. Its with more monthly wages and now I can start to pay off my debt and get back on track again and live with my boys. I just wanna encourage everyone and say that things are never easy when you make this decision to leave a marriage which is toxic. It will never be easy but you and your kids will make it. Keep taking small steps one day at a time. For me there was a time when it seemed like everything was just wrong and that it would never come right again. I kept reminding myself that this was my decision to leave the marriage. That i knew even before I left that there were rough days ahead. It seemed like the last straw when things when terrible at work too. But its good it did so I could make that decision to leave and earn more money so I can be a provider for my boys and I. So keep keeping on is what I am saying. Its still way better than being in that sick type of relationship
gail, thank you so much for posting this, it was exactly what i needed to hear. i’m at a low point lately, feeling like i will never catch up, having difficulty managing, worrying about money, not enjoying the company of others, wanting to just curl up and hide.
and dealing with stupid shit from dw, which i can manage but just means more work and more time
good to hear your words of encouragement. i too, know this is the right thing. to get out of an abusive manipulative relationship. i’m so proud of you, and so glad you got the job.
you are the sister hero of the day (week, month…)
xo
lisa
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