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So Dan took my 12 yo elk hunting over the weekend. Asks son what is the lock on moms door for? Son says “ask her”. Dan says “did she tell you to say that.” Son says “yep.” “Did she change the lock?” ” Nope, I did it for her.”
They get back and son relays all to me. I do not ask he offers this info. Then he says “On the way over Dad fell asleep and ran off the road! I had to yell dad! dad! dad! till he jumped and steered us back on the road.” Hmmmmm Dan didn’t mention that to me……….Then today while out paying bills, son says ” Boy that ticket sure was expensive!” I say what ticket? “The one the State Police gave dad for speeding. It’s 100$ ticket.”
I say “Really?” He says ” Yep and dad even told them he was with DASO (the sheriffs department he just got FIRED from). Don’t worry mom, he says the speedometer is not working right.”I knew nothing of the ticket. He neglected to tell me. Probably just SLIPPED HIS MIND I’m sure. He lied to a police officer about being with DASO. In front of his 12yo son. He is such a fucking good role model ain’t he? And he wonders why I FUCKING LOCK MY ROOM? This quy is a pathological liar. HE WILL NEVER EVER EVER CHANGE.
Now to figure out how to play this game to my best advantage. I know what I have to do. Getting it done without getting fucked over in the process is going to be the trick. I gotta go all “oceans 11” to get this done right .
What an asshole Dan is. Liar, liar penis on fire. LOL
But you are the love of my life! I will win you back! I have changed! I have been sober for 62 days! I am in recovery for real this time! I swear I will change! I am peeling back the layers and seeing the rot! I do not want to be THAT man. Tough shit asshole, you ARE THAT MAN.
What a load of BULLSHIT.Straight-ass out of the play book: “I don’t want to be that man anymore.”
Not an original thought among them.
I agree, not a single original thought among them.
And we could write our own “Ocean’s 11” about the stuff sisters have had to do to deal with this mess.
My personal all time favorite is still “I found God..”
Like God was lost? I have this visual of God’s picture on a milk carton … It’s not funny but for some reason that line just got me…
It’s so stupid it gives me a headache. I remember the day he said that .. A true vivid clear memory and I knew right then that I was dealing with a crazy person. It scared the shit out of me. That is when I put him on the plane to Minwalla…
No point to that really except I did the “look at photos thing yesterday and I’ve been up since 2 am and I’m still pissed off.
To make it worse, we went this morning to buy my sweet daughter’s car for Christmas ( she has no clue) and it should be such a good, happy moment…. I could barely speak to him.
Sorry to hijack the post Monique…. I’ll behave tomorrow 🙂
I am sorry you have to deal with that asswipe Monique. And that he has to be in your kids’ lives. I know they still love him and that’s okay. They will figure things out the older they get. I hope your h does change for the better, only to be a better father.
My son has, it took him two years, he is sixteen now. He wants nothing to do with his sperm donor, but that is in large part because the jerk basically ignores him anyway. He will NEVER get a better father.
You go right ahead Bev. I can add to it. Dan just informed me he will be gone all next week. He is going to a Catholic retreat house. In Phoenix. Maybe he will come out a monk?
Well if he “finds God” please tell him to call the SA hotline and let them all know ….these poor guys sticking their penis’ everywhere under sun searching for God… Bless thier hearts…
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monique I am truly enjoying your clarity. I know it’s awful and infuriating, but your clarity in your turns of phrase are just so damn enjoyable. Thanks for sharing.
and yes, their diving rod penises having a “come” to Jesus moment. Thanks Lynng.
Bev, you are sad and that means you’re still sane. I’m sorry he ruined your family. I know what that means, too. And I don’t believe any of them when they talk about God. If they really came into the presence of what is holy and sacred and more important than themselves, they would be struck dumb with humility and wouldn’t talk for a long time—just completely disarmed by a love they can’t manipulate and a power they can’t own. Instead they just talk more about themselves. Dead giveaway. BLAH BLAH BLAH
At least you will have some room to breath for a week, Monique. Since he isn’t working, maybe he could just stay a month?
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