A big step I took, for better or worse…(I think better) – Page 2 – S.O.S. Support for Partners of Sex Addicts

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August 2, 2012 at 2:28 pm #46075

march
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No, you never HAD a marriage, because a marriage requires TWO people. You were never married, I was never married. You CAN’T be married to a sex addict. With sex addiction, all bets/contracts/covenants are OFF.

August 2, 2012 at 5:34 pm #46076

kmf
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Everytime i think about our sweet little Julie…I find myself grinning from ear to ear.I cannot stand your H and I am so happy knowing for ONCE…he does not have the upper hand. LOL Aint love grand? x

August 2, 2012 at 6:18 pm #46077

anniem
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Julie, I am so happy for you! And I have a Catholic guilt complex up the wazoo , and even I wouldn’t feel guilty! You’re in the process of ending a marriage after discovery of things that put you through hell, and you deserve all the happiness and comfort in the world. xoxo

August 2, 2012 at 8:01 pm #46078

972
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It`s not cheating… They lied thru every vow so the contract is null and void. Just my opinion…

August 2, 2012 at 11:52 pm #46079

silver-lining
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Amen Bev!!!

And That’s the Truth!! Pft!!!

August 2, 2012 at 11:53 pm #46080

nap
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I agree with Bev. You did nothing wrong and you had a nice visit with SL!!!!

Love, Nap

August 3, 2012 at 1:56 am #46081

artemis
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Hee hee. Just wanted to say that I love this story. thank you for sharing. Go ahead, girlfriend! Get your groove on! 🙂

August 3, 2012 at 12:48 pm #46082

helenreddy
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I call The Wingman! 🙂

August 4, 2012 at 2:40 am #46083

zumbagirl
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I love it…like How Stella Got Her Groove! And if I can get my groove, ANY of us can. I am turning from a scared, sad girl into a strong bitch, lol!! xoxo

August 5, 2012 at 1:48 pm #46084

helenreddy
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This is one of my favorite threads so far. It should be called: Have Hope In Love. Thanks for sharing ZG. I’d also like to point out that since your Old Flame Friend is divorcing a female SA….that Bev’s Brothers of Support Group MIGHT prove to be healing in more ways than one. I mean I get the be careful while someone is healing….because they are very vulnerable, but there is this hole level of sexual healing that needs to be addressed….I mean when you’ve literally been a “hole in the mattress” (or a sperm bank) in your SA marriage….learning to combine the physical love with emotional intimacy (and even spiritual intimacy in some cases) would be, literally, Heaven on Earth!

July 29, 2013 at 5:29 pm #46085

liza
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Bonnie, not to speak for ZGirl, but this might have had a l-i-t-t-l-e to do with it. 😉

July 29, 2013 at 5:40 pm #46086

bonnieb
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Wow–somehow I missed this when it happened, but I just experienced the same happiness that all the other sisters expressed in this thread! Wonder what happened with the other guy and am hoping he is still in the picture, but even if he isn’t, I rejoice in the slice of sweetness he provided to remind our Julie girl of what she deserves! Yippee!!
Julie dear–update PLEASE! 🙂
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