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December 14, 2011 at 1:23 am #4096lexieParticipant
Remember the night I was taken to the hospital in handcuffs because I had called the police after suffering from a trauma response at yet another heinous aftershock, 4 weeks after the BIG ONE?
Remember how I was, then held there against my will– for hours with no food or water and was “under observation” by two security guards who I overheard ask each other what I was doing there? Then, My boob was observed by a swarthy doctor who just glared at me, when I asked him what on earth he was doing? When I had to pee, I begged them to let me go home so that I could rest. (it was very noisy and I was terrified, as well). The nurse barked at me to GET BACK TO YOU ROOM OR WE’RE GOING TO HAVE TO PUT YOU DOWN!
Actually, my h did try to find out about me and got no information, whatsoever. Did he bother to come and find out for himself?
no, of course not.
wimp!
I sent a lengthy accountings of what happened to both the the state police and hospital and made my h also write to them. and then I got the report which said that the “nurse” said that the doctor did not act inappropriately.
That would’ve been fine if ONLY there had actually been a nurse in the room with him!!! There was no one but him. I am absolutely positive. In fact I tried to get a nurse to talk to!!!
Then we received a bill, and i told them that if I had the energy I would sue them for not only providing shocking medical care, but for making my trauma even worse!
no response.
no response from the police either.
This morning I received an email from my h…
“Just spoke to Maria Fuchs-Kuntz at NWHC. She said she’d spoken to the collection agency and told them to zero out the balance. I thanked her and asked her why she never responded to our e-mails. She apologized and said it was her oversight.
I hung up and bawled my eyes out.”
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Am I supposed to feel sorry for him?December 14, 2011 at 4:52 am #24299dianeParticipantno.
December 14, 2011 at 11:56 am #24300floraParticipantNooooooo!!!
And a bigger question is why and for what??This is no reason to feel happy to be married to him, its such such a crumb of doing something for you, please don’t waste your time. You should feel sorry for yourself not him. Your the one who had to endure this, you wrote all the emails, and he happened to get the phone call, when she was saying they reduced the bill to zero. I am sure it was already decided when she called.
Love,
FloraDecember 14, 2011 at 12:56 pm #24301marchParticipantHe was crying because he felt sorry for himself. Always the case.
December 14, 2011 at 2:20 pm #24302napParticipantNot only no but hell no! It’s just a fucking crumb by gosh! It’s just a pebble in the sea.
December 14, 2011 at 2:37 pm #24303kmfMemberI have nothing to add to what Nap said. She nailed this one for exactly what it is. Karen xx
December 14, 2011 at 2:57 pm #24304lynngParticipantNo. No. NO. This was in process for a long, long time and is just trying to benefit by being the messenger. You did this, he’s just riding on your coattails, again.
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