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Hello Sisters. Claire can’t access SOS right now because her POS H is in the house so she asked me to post on her behalf. Her H saw his lawyer today and agreed to take the plea deal that was offered. Her H *claims* that the attorney told them they can delay sentencing for a couple months so he can get this contractor’s license before he is labeled as a sex offender. He also claims that the attorney told him he will probably get probation with an ankle bracelet rather than jail time (I hope for Claire’s sake that’s just more of his delusional thinking). The good news is her H wants to move to Idaho when his probation is over. Hopefully he means without Claire. He also told Claire that this was ALL HER FAULT (straight out of the playbook) for not providing him with enough sex. When she asked him if not getting enough sex meant he had to look at pictures of naked children, he said yes. (how sick is that??) So much for his “I’m being framed” claims.
Claire is upset and needs our support. She asked for silent strength but I told her I would be sending her in-your-face strength instead. Let’s all join together and send her some nuclear Sisterhood strength. Her sick fuck of an H just moved to the top of the Vigilante hit list.
Gawd, Claire. Remember what Dr Minwalla told me today. Believe nothing they say. He’s looking to blame and since you’re the closest, well tag, you’re it.
You are loved and good riddance.
Good luck to him on getting an ankle monitor. Fucking whacko nut
That motherfucker. I’ve been thinking of you Claire as I knew all of his court shit was going to come home to roost on the 16th. I swear to God I’m in on the vigilante thing. I’ve got mad ninja skillz, hell I actually know how to kill a man without leaving any tell-tale signs (Krav Maga!). When and where???
I’ll bring the flat head shovel Liza. I took out a ground hog with one already. I’ll just tell the authorities he looked like a rodent to me. 🙂 A big, ugly rat.
Claire,
I’m sending you all the LOVE and STRENGTH I can muster up. You’re a gem and dont let him fuck with your head. He sounds crazy to me plus the fact he likes to look at naked children, well, he’s just a BIG CREEP and he needs to go to prison…..love you Claire, lots!!!
NapClaire, love and strength. Sounds like it will be over, soon. And he’ll be gone. Please let us know if we can help in any way. And NONE of his behavior was caused by you, I know you know that. You are wonderful, loving, kind and beautiful and you will be much happier without him to worry about.
Dearest Claire, I am so sorry. I will come help you if you need me. Please let us know if there is anything we can do. I love you and I am sending everything good your way.
Sending love and support. What a sick fuck. And to blame you for his pathology – straight out of the playbook but on a whole other level. Don’t let him get to you. Idaho can have him.
Hugs,
Anneclaire. there are no words.
hang onto your donkeys dear claire and let go of that ass!
i can’t imagine how you must feel. you know it isn’t you. hopefully his TOTALLY fucked up reasoning makes it a little easier to believe that.
sounds like he is coming out of denial mode and going into attack mode. can you get away for a while? how long is probation. can he go somewhere else?
can we hook up FNs taser to that ankle bracelet?
claire, you do NOT deserve this. you did NOT cause this.
hugs.
Claire, sending you love and prayers, I’m shaking just reading what he said to you. It must have been so awful. I am really praying that he doesn’t get an ankle bracket at home, but rather prison time do that you don’t have to suffer through that. He should do extra prison time just for saying those things he said to you. Much love.
Thanks ladies. I’ll post when I can. I don’t want him to see anything I’m doing right now. I’m okay physically. Just shocked and amazed that I can hate someone as much as I do him right now. I have crying fits off/on. I know I’m going to lose this property and it breaks my heart. I may lose some of my animals, too. But I’ll keep trying to find a way to keep them. I’m looking into renting a place where I can keep the donkeys around here. I need to stay with my doctors for a while until I’m back in good health. Eventually I will leave this town. He’s bluffing, I think, with the Idaho talk. The guy has never lived anywhere else but in this awful little town. He’s got enough friends on his side who will believe that he HAD to take the plea, just to get the whole ordeal overwith. There’s a lot of stupid fuck guys in this town. They’ll believe him. And I told him I knew he was guilty and that I wish I’d never bailed him out of jail last year. That didn’t go over too well! I have to make nice, so he will agree to support me. God grant me some acting skills. Lordy I need them now.
I love you guys, and Bev, I may just take you up on coming to help, I’ll let you know if it comes to that. Thanks.
Much love, Claire
Claire, Stay strong sweet girl. He is one sick fuck. I pray he gets jail time. Let the really bad guys teach his sorry ass a lesson. You have nothing to do with his sick, perverted, twisted behavior. Stick ear plugs in and stay away from him. We love you and we care about you. I pray you can get away from him very soon.
Could SPCA arrange temporary homes for the animals? It’s not over yet, Claire. You are giving him and his pull in that town a lot of credit. I know good ol’ boys can slip through the knot on the gallows pretty well, but this is stuff other people will shy away from, even for most good ol’ boys. He may have already called in a lot of favors to have stayed free this long. Remember, we still don’t know the whole story. There could be someone more powerful than him that is going to let him take a dive to keep them out of the spotlight.
God, what a world, why do I know this stuff? Sisters, we should never have to know this stuff. Their exposing us to this world in inexcusable. So much of this is inexcusable.
Praying for support for you to just blossom, Claire, in places you never expected it. Praying for you to keep your place, your beloved animals, and that you see an outpouring of love and respect in the wake of that awful man’s departure.
Claire, please don’t worry about Bella and Prissy and Willy and the rest of your beloved friends. I swear to God, we’ll find a way to keep you and your real family together. Keep calm and carry on Sister.
I can imagine how difficult this is right now. You have so many people holding you in their thoughts and prayers right now, including me, for a safe passage out of this nightmare your h created for you.
Claire – for his attorney to get him to agree to a plea he has no leg to stand on – his delusional brain cannot be used to destroy you anymore – love and strength Meg xo
There was a time this morning when he was telling me how much he loves me and he’ll make sure that I’m taken care of financially. And this afternoon he tells me that I have some real problems that need to be addressed.
Wow, he’s really fucked up.Today, I’ve been crying off and on for the loss of a marriage, for the thought of losing my house and beautiful property, for my animals who did nothing to have their lives turned upside down when all I ever wanted was to give them a safe and wonderful place to live. I’ve cried for getting my dogs upset when they saw me crying, so much sadness. He’s not shed one tear. Not one.
I wanted to stay in the house for another year, since the market is just turning around, if we hold onto it a little longer, we might get out of it what we put into it. All he would have to do is make enough money to pay for his own place because his pension money is enough to pay for this place. Nope. He wants to sell it now. Why? Probably to see me suffer to have to move so quickly with no where to go while still trying to recover from surgery and physical therapy. He will not make any of this easy on me.
I guess because he’s not happy, I can’t be happy. But you know what . . . in the midst of all this chaos, I’m glad he has to live with the title “Registered Sex Offender” for the rest of his life. There is some justice there.
They really think there acting out can be blamed on another person???? Really???? Do they think they are the most brilliant master mind for thinking of that? Sorry dude Adam beat you to it.
I am pretty sure God didn’t let him blameshift either.
There’s got to be some loophole about not entering into contract while you have outstanding cases in trial, or something, that can slow down his race to sell the house.
Sabotage it, if nothing else. Something stupid, like get rid of some of the screens and damage the crawl space door. Those things have to be in place to get certain government insured loans like VA and some FHA.Even if he manages to get a contract before he goes to trial or bargains, you can mess it up. Stop it from reaching closing. He doesn’t have to know it was you. He is a mess, think of all the little maintenance type issues that might be wrong in an SAs house. You can even “forget” to be there at the time of the appraiser’s visits and if they’re not done, the financing is stalled and the buyer’s can’t perform.
All long shots, but do you have any idea how much he is taking for granted that you will do while he is tied up with the legal stuff. I’m sure you do. What it means is, there is a whole lot that can go wrong with a sale before it gets to closing. Who could blame you for forgetting things when you are so stressed and your husband is facing this? Right?
Claire,
I don’t have any words, except that you’re a warm-hearted person who loves all souls, and he abused this love and trust. Since it seems clear that he looks at naked children, he doesn’t deserve any measure of sympathy from you. You’re right that you need to dig up your acting skills to play this out in order to keep the house for another year. He sounds so off-kilter that maybe you can keep him steered towards waiting a year.
On the other hand, there’s a benefit to ripping of the band-aid and getting a new start asap.
I’m sending you love and good wishes, Claire. You’re such a lovely woman and didn’t deserve any of this.
Love,
AliClaire, for God’s sake darling DON’T listen to ONE WORD he says. He is one sick fuck. I am very sorry about the animals but you have to save your own life first. Animals don’t know about sex addiction and they can survive changes if they have to because they do not plan ahead. Please take care of yourself and we will help you come up with a solution for the animals?
Love Karen x
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