Used to go to his favorite ethnic restaurant twice, 3x a week. I’d try to talk to him and he’d always be looking around to see who else was there. Once, not long before he blew up, I pointed out he hadnt heard anything I said for the last 20 mins and was instead checking others out and playing with his cell phone. He told me nothing I was saying interested him.
The worst though was when he called the bimbo temp from a restaurant men’s room (at 11:30 PM her time) while we were on a trip together, and he left me sit at the table while the food got cold. When he came out his face was flushed and he was sweating. He lied calmly about the whole thing and said he had been sick with diarrhea. It was only later I found the call on the cell phone records. He said he didn’t remember if he called her or not, he could ask her but she was probably “too busy” to remember, and the fact that I had no consideration for him having been sick in the bathroom with diarrhea showed that I was a person with no empathy.
(Head explodes)