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    autumn
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    Desiree, your list matches mine…

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    Criminal sociopathic assaholism (thanks Liza). Would somebody open the jail gates?

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    arleighburke
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    Used to go to his favorite ethnic restaurant twice, 3x a week. I’d try to talk to him and he’d always be looking around to see who else was there. Once, not long before he blew up, I pointed out he hadnt heard anything I said for the last 20 mins and was instead checking others out and playing with his cell phone. He told me nothing I was saying interested him.

    The worst though was when he called the bimbo temp from a restaurant men’s room (at 11:30 PM her time) while we were on a trip together, and he left me sit at the table while the food got cold. When he came out his face was flushed and he was sweating. He lied calmly about the whole thing and said he had been sick with diarrhea. It was only later I found the call on the cell phone records. He said he didn’t remember if he called her or not, he could ask her but she was probably “too busy” to remember, and the fact that I had no consideration for him having been sick in the bathroom with diarrhea showed that I was a person with no empathy.

    (Head explodes)

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    tmp271
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    Mine surrounded himself with young women (nurses). He could shoot the breeze with women like no one else. Once said to me “if you are in a hurry, all you need is a lille bit of lipstick and some eyeliner” Ewww gives me the creeps. I have had gut inuition that he has acted out with men. He is kind of feminine at times. Sticks out his pinky finger when he is drinking something. Great at lovebombing. I would know he was onto someone new when he became obsessed with new things…ie. Wendy’s taco salad twice a day. Ocean spray diet crangrape. Was not surprised to find the newest girl he was grooming liked the same things.

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    nap
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    The Christmas after Dday (Dday was in October) my xh put a HUGE booger on my gift, let it dry, then wrapped it. Of course too he bought the wrong item I requested. Then he went into the bedroom and brought out a gift he had wrapped. My girls and I said “Who is that for?”. He said “It’s for me (himself), and I bought it for myself”. Opens it up and there’s a watch from a jewelry store he used to frequent on his lunch hrs. Probably from the chick he was persuing there. They are so FUp!

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