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October 5, 2011 at 9:06 pm #3768busybeeParticipant
Hi everyone.
I’m being very emotionally unhealthy and sticking my fingers in my ears and going ‘la la la’ rather than address the drama that’s been going on. However, i will say that nap was the first person who ever chatted to me on the site and i don’t want to lose her or any other sisters for that matter.
Just thought I’d let you all know that my decree nisi was pronounced in court yesterday. My ex has not completed the financial disclosure form (after 8 weeks) so my solicitor has written to him saying either he fills in the form or we will have no choice but to go to court. He offered him an option though. We won’t go to court if he signs the house over to me! He’s got 7 days to reply. Here’s hoping!Bb
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October 5, 2011 at 9:12 pm #20031zumbagirlMemberOh Bb, I’m hoping and crossing fingers for you! Great to see your cute face again! Keep us posted!! Crossing toes too!!
xoxo JulieOctober 5, 2011 at 9:17 pm #20032hadj608ParticipantOooooh I hope he leaks out and you just get everything you want! You deserve it! I am just starting. Glad you will be around for advice even if it is a different country! I feel like this sa thing has its hand planted firmly in the middle of my back and it is pushing me through life, I keep trying to slap it off but I can’t reach it.
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HeidiOctober 5, 2011 at 9:46 pm #20033kmfMemberHi BB!
Hands in ears going LA LA…I love that. 🙂 I am guessing you prefer having the house rather than financial disclosure? I hope you get it BB and ANYTHING else you want to free yourself.
Heidi,
I can completely relate to what you said. Is like living in a SA maze….you keep searching for the door to free you but it is one wrong turn after another? I have had cancer but this is an emotional cancer and I don’t really know how to stop the spread and contain it most days. You can leave them, you can stay with them, you can love them or hate them…..the one thing you cannot easily do is let them go it seems….. BIG SIGH Karen xxOctober 5, 2011 at 10:11 pm #20034zumbagirlMemberBb, I have a tee-shirt that says on the front “La, la, la, I can’t hear you!” If I see another one, I’ll send it to you! 😉
October 5, 2011 at 11:35 pm #20035stillstandingParticipantI’m sending positive vibes your way, BB!!
October 6, 2011 at 12:42 am #20036dianeParticipantHi BB,
thank you for sharing this news. I really hope things will unfold in the best way possible for you! It sounds like your lawyer has actually working for you.
keep us posted.
D.xo.October 6, 2011 at 11:13 am #20037jos1972ParticipantHey BB – mine was due to be pronounced in court yesterday too!
Congratulations and good luck with the house. We are just starting on the finances 🙁
October 6, 2011 at 5:36 pm #20038kmfMemberGood luck to you too Jos your post on why I stay was lovely. Hugs Karen
October 6, 2011 at 5:39 pm #20039busybeeParticipantHa! Love it ZG!
Jos! How weird is that? Both of up getting our nisi on the same day! The financial disclosure form is a nightmare, they practically want blood. Bank statements, pay slips, partner’s income (bet she won’t like that!) Details of all insurance policies and details of how much you spend on everything from food to clothing etc. Let’s hope he decides it’s too much trouble. But i doubt it.
Bb x
October 6, 2011 at 6:17 pm #20040b-trayedParticipantBB…I hope you get all you need and more. I am sorry for your struggles. Let us know what happens!!!
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