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Robinlight,
Based on your first post on this forum his actions are telling you a lot. He doesn’t want to do one. If you force him then it’s not HIM working his recovery it’s YOU. Or if he valued the marriage and you he’d be scheduling the disclosure and working on it with good intent, not avoidance. His actions say a lot and I’m sorry it’s not very good.
Love, NapxoJos, I’m with you- although what you are describing is more like a deposition. At this point, it’s not about therapy, it’s about safety, accountability, and justice. He committed a crime (as far as I am concerned) against his family, is refusing to take responsibility, faked recovery…at this point, enough is enough. He’s had more than 3 strikes. He owe his family.
Really, it being in recovery is about honesty and taking responsibility, shouldn’t this be a requirement? Instead, CSAT’s use splitting up as an excuse for them to keep things secret and to continue abusing their families. (of course, if I stayed, I’d be codependent.
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