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Hi All!!
Asking for postive thoughts today at around 10:00.We have agreed upon everything except the visitation schedule. If push comes to shove i am hoping that we can atlease sign the decree with everyhting except the weekly schedule, which we can continue to hash out.
He proposes this crazy 4 week rotating schedule which has no consistency. And to boot he cannot even do it, as he works every other weekend. However i have been pusing for every other weekend,which is a consistent schedule and is something that he can do. Just one last way for him to try to stick it to me. He wants all this time, but as usual not real responsibility, only one overnight. And only giving me one overnight each month, makes it so i cannot leave the house to ever get out. I think that is his goal, and always sticks me with all the work.
Anywho. Hope we can get this done today. And visitation goes my way. And the decree gets signed!!!
Thank you sisters!!
Love.
FloraFlora,
So happy to hear your good news and I hope he signs too! It’s been a long road and it’s finally coming to an end. Wishing you love, peace, and joy in your new life!Love, Nap
Dearest Flora,
Sending you good energy and light. You will be in my thoughts this morning.
Good luck Sister!
Dear Flora,
Sending the angels…..I pray he just lets you go with all you require Good luck!! Karen xxBig hug for you and all the hard work you have done to grab hold of your life, do your own work, find hope, and look after your daughter.
Keep trusting yourself, Flora. It’s all there, everything you need.
long journey,
D.xoFlora, Hopefully you’re through with your divorce proceedings by now and you got everything you requested! Love, Liza
Thank you guys!!!!
So its done. Finally.
The visitation is a 4 week rotating schedule for the weekends, in that it is a different weekend visitation schedule each week, instead of like every other weekend. I did not get what I wanted, however it is workable for now and can be modified later. The child support will have to be modified anyway in a few.months when he starts his new job which should be at the end of summer.I am very excited.that this is all over.
I will have to update you all on the situation with my daughter. We are at the child therapist right now. There is a lot of comfort inhaving her go once a week. I wknd confident if anything is going on, she will find it.
Thank you all so much for your support through all of my crazy and sometimes sad and desperate posts. And for giving thoughts and advice.for all the many times I have needed it. Love you all!!!!!!
Love, floraFLORA!!!
You did it girl!! OMG!!! I Am sooooo proud of you!! I am so thrilled and happy and excited and bursting with love for my sister!! Congratulations!! We’re celebrating this summer at the retreat in the Holler!! Have I told everyone we are having another informal retreat at the lake?! Well, WE ARE!! And you are all invited!! 🙂 Details forthcoming!! (yes, Jeanette, this means YOU too! I will come and get you myself!!)We will have a special toast to all the Divorcee’s!! And then a special toast to ALL the sisters, and then whatever else we can think of to toast to!! But for now, let’s give Our Flora a cyber toast!! Yeehaw!!! XOXOXO!!!!
Flora,
I’m so happy for you, after all you’ve been through!! I know he will always be in your life, and that you have years ahead of visitation schedules, but YOU are free! You inspire me!xoxo!! Julie
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