Drowning…Part 1

Ok, before I get into the long story which involves finding out more information regarding this POS’s family, let me update the arrival of more lies from the cretin that I had the misfortune of marrying:

A) Credit card of mine declined leaving me with no means to even purchase food or a fall coat for my 2yo. No money in checking and no savings. I couldn’t understand how it happened as I am very careful with my money. Looked online to check the charges and saw that the “thing” had, at some point, taken the card and/or the card information and charged up $800 on food for himself {in a 45 day period}, as well as a $200 cash advance and payments of loitering tickets I didn’t know he had.

2) I had hid emergency cash {not much..$40} in the urn of my dead cat’s ashes. I went to get it and it was gone. Yes, he went into dead cat ashes to steal the money I had for my daughter and I {which means he was searching forever, because why would he look THERE of all places? When I asked him why he looked there, he said he was curious as to what ashes looked like}

3} A high school buddy of his came for a visit yesterday {mind you, I haven’t seen this guy in over 5 years..last time was at my wedding}. They are laughing and shooting the shit when my 2yo started to dance. I made a comment about her dance moves and said she def got it from her dad, because he cannot dance. The friend then said “Well, we will all see if he’s improved at the wedding on Friday”. I just stared at him. {We had gotten a wedding invitation for one of SA’s high school buddies a few months ago, which I responded “no we can’t attend” and had put in a little note and a small check}. I said to the friend “What are you talking about? We’re not going to the wedding”. At this point, SA came over and said “I think you’re having brain lapses. I told you that my friend called me and begged me to go”. HUH? WHAT!? I had to keep my cool while his friend was there and my child was awake. I took my 2yo for a walk and went over to his car to check it out. Inside the car was a suit and shoes. So it’s obvious he had planned on telling me he was going to work when instead he was going to a wedding. After the “friend” left, I called up the guy who is getting married and put him on speaker phone. At first he had no idea who I was {why would he? I met him ONCE in 2006}, then he said “Oh yea, sorry you can’t make it”. In turn, I told him that neither of us could make it, and asked him when he had called my SA to “beg” him to go and that he didn’t have to give a gift. Friend said, “I don’t know what you are talking about. He called me a couple of weeks ago and said he was coming but you couldn’t because there was nobody to watch the baby. But if you want to come we did reserve the 2 seats in case you could get out”. I said to him “I replied no, didn’t you get the reply? We have no money to even feed our child” and he said “Well, then why is he coming? He called and was adamant about going. It’s fine if you guys don’t come, not a big deal”. When I hung up with him I turned to SA and said “For the love of GOD..when WILL THE LIES END??????” and he said “I must have confused the conversation..I guess I called him”. I WANTED TO PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE!

4} I immediately grabbed his wallet off the table. He tried to get it away from me but I was too quick. I locked myself in the bathroom and lo and behold..there was $200 in cash in the wallet {probably for the wedding} as well as a “secret” credit card I knew NOTHING about, and directions to someone’s house {probably where he was going to get changed, etc}.

5} I came out with the credit card and asked him how he slept at night. Here is his wife and child, with no money, and no food, waiting for his paycheck so we can get necessities, and the entire time he had access to not 1, not 2, but 3 means of money!!!!! I then grabbed my laptop and broke into his account on the secret card. He’s had it for 6 months and charged $4500 on random shit for himself..everything from football crap, to porn sites, to food, to cash withdrawals..which were NO DOUBT for hookers because I’ve never seen a fucking PENNY of ANY of this money}

This person is an abomination and a disgrace. A slithering sneaky coward…a narcissistic statue with no regard for anything, including his own child…a selfish self-centered pathological liar…a sexual deviant…a total and utter waste of breath…he has dug me SO FAR into financial ruin I feel as if I am drowning…he has shit all over my life for so long it would take 1.7 billion garbage trucks to uncover me from the mountain of crap…he is creating a horrible life for my daughter..he is, for lack of a more creative term, a horrendous and despicable MONSTER.

It.will.never.end. The.lies.will.never.stop. He will lie about anything and everything, sex related or not.

I loathe him. When he left for work today I took the secret credit card and called a locksmith. I installed 2 new locks on my doors so that he cannot come into this house. I also called my local church and asked if there were ANY services I could go to which would help me and my daughter deal with this. To top it all off my daughter is sick. And I am drowning. And I have never detested any human being as much as I detest that lying scumbag.

Thanks for letting me vent. I will get to part 2 in a bit…I had the balls to call his brother’s 3rd ex wife and ask questions to see what the HELL is wrong with this family. What she told me will make your head spin….