My best friend discovered her husband of 5 years is a porn addict. She found out in March, confronted him and he literally took off…leaving her with no closure and just reeling. I advised he to get trauma therapy and she found someone who did EMDR. She had 1or 2 sessions and she didn’t really think it was that helpful? That being said…from MY perspective her ability to cope seemed to return quickly after that, she detached, and has got on with her life? Of course, just as she was getting back on track he re- entered her life BUT she is keeping a healthy distance and is not emeshed so I think it did help her? Karen