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Keep preaching it Sister. Your perspective is ALWAYS welcome! I’m just thankful you’re able to share it from the OTHER side of the trenches and that you’re FREE!
Amen, Liza!
And Sharron, I always appreciate your insight as well. You are very intelligent and I know how much research, etc. you have done. I also know how very much you wanted your marriage to work and stopped at nothing short of “fixing Steve” yourself…. Until you eventually figured out that wouldn’t work either! You bravely fought a courageous battle and especially given all of your circumstances, you will always be a hero to me!!Love, SL
The SA in my life never gave a full disclosure. The therapy we had treated me like 1/2 of the problem. He….got off the hook and his illness and lies progressed for 20 years. Paind good money for all of that. Damn. Anyway – I have no idea what he did – I suspect that the addiction became all pervasive – seeing “objects” in public – any age, both sexes, computer at home and work, restrooms, strip clubs, video joints, gay bars, campgrounds, malls, public parks. He pretended he was a great, generous and wonderful partner. How is it possible to live such a double life? How is it that I missed it? Well – I gave him trust and he took me for the ride of my life and fooled my 3 children too. He fooled his therapist and lied, lied, lied. Why? Because he could and get away with it too. Bastard. I never want to wish anyone evil….but I do……wish…..the worst.
Desiree, I’m sorry you are suffering so much. If you can find a therapist who does EMDR, it could help a lot with your trauma symptoms.
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