For those who have SA’s that frequented prostitutes…

I was just wondering if any of you have talked to and/or seen pictures of the prostitutes your SA’s have been with?

On my initial d-day, my “thing” admitted to being with one hooker since we’ve been married {got married in Fall 2006}. After investigating I found that number to be a far cry from reality. I confronted him one day about the additional ones, and of course he did nothing but deny, so I dialed one of them on the phone right in front of him {I got the number off his cell phone log, and it corresponded with a large cash withdrawal from an ATM during his lunch hour at work}. He showed no reaction at all, he just sat there, and then got angry. The woman I spoke to was angry as well, since I pretended to be calling for my “brother” and his bachelor party, then told the truth.

I let it go for awhile, but on one of the days in which I was feeling down and extremely hurt, I investigated more, because for some morbid reason, I wanted to know what these women looked like. Finding 6 of them was simple; all I had to do was google their phone number. It immediately brought me to their ads on a site called “backpage”, and 4 of these women had websites {and were also linked to another site called “erotic review”, in which men rated them and their skills}. These women’s personal websites had galleries of pictures, as well as VIDEOS of them shaking their asses and sucking pickles, etc.

Here’s the clincher.

I am not a super model, but I am an attractive woman. I’ve never had any problems meeting men, and I’ve always been called “hot” or “pretty”. Although I am not a stick figure, I keep myself in good shape {even with an injured knee}! I just turned 39, but look about 10 years younger. And not to be mean, but when I told friends and family I was marrying my “thing”, most of my friends were like “really? but he’s not your type”..which was a polite way of saying he was not as good looking as any of the men I’ve been serious with prior. So, I expected to see model-thin, perfectly coifed, porn-star aura women that he had spent all his, mine, and our 2 year old’s money on….and what did I see instead? Obese women. I’m not talking chubby or overweight. I’m talking 300 pounds. 300 pound women wearing fishnets! Women covered in cellulite and stretch marks and dimples. Women who have arms that are 3x the size of my thighs. Now, there are obese women who have pretty faces. But these women looked as if a mack truck had smacked them in their head, and somebody came by and smeared make-up on the wreckage in an attempt to cover up the disaster {I can appreciate a pretty face when I see one. These sluts were downright UGLY} Clown make-up on ugly faces attached to morbidly obese bodies.

What.the.hell.

I checked the prices they charged to see if this was a financial thing. But their charges mirrored the more attractive prostitutes {as if ANY prostitute can be attractive, being she is nothing more than a public toilet that thousands of people urinate in, but you get the point}. Services offered were also the same. Reviews were the same. It was mind boggling.

Watching these obese woman get on all fours and bounce their disgusting asses on video almost made me hurl, and it also made me question WHY? Yet another WHY to have floating around in my brain. My SA has never shown a preference for larger women. None of the girls he seriously dated before me were obese. In fact, they looked pretty much the same as I do.

So once again I confronted him. I asked him what type of prostitutes he had been with. He said he picked whomever was located near his job, and was pretty. My SA’s entire “reason” for having sex with hookers was because he “needed variety and thought that it was the safest way to get the variety because a hooker will never fall in love or tell”. Guess he forgot about their websites! Anyhow, I asked him if all of his variety included women who not only had the body of an elephant, but the face of one as well. He told me I was insecure because I probably felt like I couldn’t compare to a porn star.

Porn star?? Where!???

So I turned on the laptop, pulled up a picture of the last one he was with {total train wreck!} and held the computer up next to me. I could see the recognition in his eyes, but he said nothing. So I said “what I want to know is why a man who drives and own a Rolls Royce would opt to rent a friekan PINTO for an hour”! After hours of silence his answer was, and I quote: “I like a big ass”. I asked him if ALL of the hookers he has been to looked like this and at first he didn’t answer, and then he said “most of them”.

I don’t know whether or not the sight of these women has made me feel better or worse. Better because I know that they cannot hold a CANDLE to me in the looks department, or worse because my SA had ME at home, chose to NOT have sex with me, and hand picked the most horrendous hooker he could find….

Sorry if I got off track, so back to my original point of writing this post: have any of you spoken to or seen the hookers that your SA spent all of your money on? Was it a person who was the polar opposite of you? Was it something you weren’t expecting at all? And if you haven’t, what would you prefer to see..that they went to a model-like perfect woman, or an ugly hippo? {and please note..these women were charging A LOT of money}!

I’m still haunted by the visions of these women; their pics, their videos, and my SA’s “reviews” of his “companion” time with them. Yes. He wrote reviews.