grief and letting go

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  • July 17, 2013 at 2:16 am #99048
    sickoftrying
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    Is Desiree divorced?

    July 17, 2013 at 2:18 am #99049
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    yes

    July 17, 2013 at 2:21 am #99050
    anniem
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    Beautifully said, Lisa. And I get stuck on not knowing who it is/was that I’m grieving, which just confuses the whole grieving process. It’s like my heart is in limbo. xoxo

    July 17, 2013 at 9:05 pm #99051
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    Annie, you break my heart. You loved him ( we all did). You are grieving sweetie. It’s okay.

    What you actually do about it will come to you all in good time. Just grieve and let it happen. It doesn’t really matter who or what. Grief is grief.

    July 28, 2013 at 4:07 pm #99052
    healingheart
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    Thank you for this post. I love the way you put the letting go issue Lisak and all of you…really. I am so in grief. It just came upon me, when I thought I was handling it so well. The behaviors in my husband I thought were based on him feeling bad for himself while lying to me …and now seeing them after his forced confession to me…ugh. Triggering to say the least. But letting go, surrendering. There is a freedom in it. I wish I was truly free to surrender, and mad in a way I have been knitted into his hell…I have kids, I am married, older…but…I have to trust and still surrender anyways. I have a dream there is a man who is kind, tender, healthy and cares. I know. SICK! why even go there. men all seem to be dogs. i don’t want to give up yet that there are not good men out there, but so far…all i have ever been is hurt by men. so i am grieving perhaps the dream that men are kind.
    anyways. rambling. thank you lisa for this post. i am hurting for everyone hurting with the hurt i can share. hugs to all. you are not alone and i am not alone. thank you all for sharing and showing me we are in this together.

    July 28, 2013 at 4:45 pm #99053
    lisak
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    ‘I have a dream there is a man who is kind, tender, healthy and cares.’

    i have that same dream, HH. this is a healthy dream. hold on to that. there are good people in the world. and good men. i believe that with my whole heart.

    July 28, 2013 at 9:03 pm #99054
    liza
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    “Freedom’s just another word for nothin’ left to lose.” ~ Janis Joplin

    July 28, 2013 at 9:27 pm #99055
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    Amen Liza. That is exactly where these guys underestimate us.

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