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While I thought we were working on our marriage and doc e was in recovery, he was secretly recording conversations with me, printing out my emails, and kept a “journal” accusing me of throwing things at him, hitting him, and spitting on him. And seeing a divorce attorney. And doing goodness knows what with the money.
I would suggest anyone staying in a relationship with an SA “in recovery” needs to be very very careful. If they can hide the acting out, you have no idea what else they are hiding from you.
monique, you are sadly probably right. Teri, these guys are nuts. That is crazy making behavior and they are good at it. It amazes me how a man who has done so much damage can sit there and document bullshit to try to blame you for this mess.
Yeah, mine had my phone and computer conversations sent to him. Imagine that!!! I refused to monitor him, and all the while he was monitoring me. lot of good it did him, but still, the nerve! I know now he was hoping to catch me in an affair so he’d be damned sure to not have to pay anything. What a joke, well if it wasn’t so insulting it’d be a joke. I was so torn up looking at a man was the L-A-S-T thing on my mind. As it is, he just pays what he decides to, not what’s ordered.
I’m so sorry for what your going through. I don’t know much about this stuff. I will ad you to my prayer intention jar though. <3
How do you have phone and computer conversations sent to you? My xh has fallen off the face of the Earth but still (luckily) shows up for work. He is definately hiding something. Otherwise why would he hide where he is living, etc? I was thinking about hiring a private detective to see who he is living with and if he is spending $ doing fun things since he claims to the judge he is completely broke financially.Is there a way to monitor this stuff if you don’t have access to his phone or ipad?
Lynn, that is so screwed up. I know exactly what you mean about not wanting another man. It is unreal that he was trying to catch YOU in an affair. I hope it is ok with you, but that made me giggle a little bit. What a dumb pathetic man.
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