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November 4, 2011 at 6:32 pm #3906
hurtheart
ParticipantI didn’t want anyone to think I had disappeared. I’ve just been struggling with this “thing” I am still being forced to live with. He WILL NOT leave the house. REFUSES. And he has done more stuff since I last spoke. I also found out some interesting tidbits about his family via his brother’s 3rd ex wife AND my “thing’s” ex fiance’. Suffice to say that my “thing” has been this narcissistic pervert for quite some time, and his older brother is exactly.the.same.way. Who knew? All I know is that I’ve been trying to hold it together for my 2 & 1/2 yr old daughter. I will give a better update later.
November 4, 2011 at 9:32 pm #21730ms-lindy
ParticipantHi hurtheart,
I was wondering where you’ve been. Have you been taking any steps towards freedom?
LindyNovember 4, 2011 at 9:58 pm #21731shakennotbroken
ParticipantHi hurtheart! I hope your “thing” comes to reality and realizes soon that you want him out!!!! By the way, I like the way you refer to him as “thing,” LOL!!!!
~ Shaken
November 4, 2011 at 10:32 pm #21732nap
ParticipantHi Hurtheart,
So sorry to hear it’s still bad and he won’t leave. Let us know what your plans are?
Love, NapNovember 4, 2011 at 10:37 pm #21733joann
ParticipantDear HH,
Please know that we are here for you. Post whenever you can and always feel our positive energy for you and your daughter.
Is there any way that YOU can leave?
HE IS legally responsible for supporting you and your daughter, you know.
Do you need legal advice or any resources that I can find for you?
Love and light dear one ~ JoAnn
November 9, 2011 at 8:13 pm #21734cindy1111
ParticipantHi HH,
So sorry your hurting. I have often thought about you. Sending you hugs and strength to continue to believe in yourself. I have found it to be a bumpy ride, hold on and allow us to support your grip.
Love, Cindy
November 9, 2011 at 11:54 pm #21735flora
ParticipantHi HH,
I did not see this post. Glad to hear you are still out there with us.I really thought about you the other day. I was watching oprah life class. This episode was about a woman who had had twins, they were born to early, and one died. And she was devastated, the whole family was devastated. She had trouble doing things in life. And i remember how you had struggled with the loss of the twin, who would not, i would be devstated as well. But they had this guy on Oprah (Gary Zukav) and he commented on their loss and their situation. If you can find this clip it may be beneficial to you. He told them to view their loss of their son as a soul who chose to be with them for only a few days and then chose to leave. That they should feel blessed for the presence he gave them in those few short days. To not get hung up on the personality but that he was a soul who was here only a brief time. He had some really profound words for them, and i wish for you to be able to see it. I hope you can find it.
Love to you!!
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