How long until you got full disclosure?

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  • November 16, 2011 at 3:07 pm #22261
    nap
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    Lylo,
    I guess according to the therapist, all those boobs start to run together and therefore they dont remember it all.

    Love, Nap

    November 16, 2011 at 3:08 pm #22262
    nap
    Participant

    It’s like a ‘booby trap’

    November 16, 2011 at 5:21 pm #22263
    lynng
    Participant

    LOL, booby trap!

    I guess I’m pretty lucky, then, that my H is supposed to do full disclosure Tuesday and after next. The counselor said he wants to meet with me the week before. Any idea what that’s about? Prepping me and giving me time to pick up the Valium?

    November 16, 2011 at 6:24 pm #22264
    ksondy
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    My H’s CSAT talked to me before as well. To explain how it would work and tell what “kinds” of questions I could ask.

    I recommend you schedule a second session a week after disclosure to discuss the disclosure. Because in the moment it is hard to think of what you want to ask. But within days you have a ton of questions you didn’t think of that day.

    November 17, 2011 at 4:06 pm #22265
    lynng
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    Yeah, I am finding out that the qualifiers are the key. Like “I got rid of all THAT porn, all of it.” That, meaning the porn I knew about, which is probably 1/20th of what there is. I can’t think of everything, and H is counting on that, I guess. I just prayed that any porn he touches or looks at now be so dissatisfying it loses it’s appeal.

    November 17, 2011 at 7:08 pm #22266
    ksondy
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    Exactly. Afterwards you think, “wait a minute…” My H definietly tried to glaze over certain subjects. I don’t think they EVER reach a point where they can”t help but minimize.

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