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Awe thank you….It’s okay Sisters…It is not my fault. I can really only control one thing “Myself” and really that is a big enough job. I may be a northerner but my mother raised a rebel.
So sorry, Kat. Your story is a heartbreaker. These guys really don’t appreciate how much damage they do. They think it’s not personal, they aren’t hurting anyone. And they never seem to really get it.
Take good care of yourself, Kat.
“Funny thing was he was a womanizer but he was a gentleman with me. Kissed me on the cheek after our first date.”
Sadly, that is because you were about to be groomed to be primary supply…a truly thankless role. Predatory types ride in, save the day and make sure you spend the rest of your life paying for it…….
Good men don’t lie and cheat and womanizers don’t rescue anyone.Of course he didn’t want you to throw your life away on your Mom…he was hoping you would throw it away on him instead. Too black and white? You bet your rebel ass girl. Karen xxKaren primary supply is right!!! I must be naive because I just can’t imagine anybody having the ability to plan and anticipate those things. But you may be right as I was wife number 3 and he said he would never marry again. I believed in the “shades of grey” (no pun intended) in between the black and white sometimes. You know those moments between two people that nobody could make up or fake?
Nice observation, Karen.
I found this quote today:
“Some men need the security of a steady relationship to feel confident enough to chase women.”
From Carol Leiberman, MD and Lisa Cool.I don’t what it’s from, but I think I’m going to try to find out.
Ok, so she often writes for Cosmo and the Amazon reviews for her book are really bad. But it’s still a good quote. Explains maybe why these guys get married in the first place.
Nice quote. I think some men are insecure and jealous of their wives. Jealous of the wife who is intelligent, beautiful, fun, witty, sensitive… the wife who has the capacity to love in a way they dont. The woman they fell in love with in their minds may be a hell of a lot better than them.
Mine actually wrote that in his workbook…He never felt good enough for me….I guess he then set out to prove himself right??
They are afraid of intimacy. They resent us because they let us into to their inner circle at some point. We scare them. Hookers and strippers are safer.
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