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  • #98586
    teneil
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    I hate them too!!

    #98587
    sickoftrying
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    I hate the smugness. The way they can always find something to belittle you about. Tonite I cooked country fried steak mashed potatoes and butter beans. His comment, “the beans didnt get quite done enough.” Good choke on them SOS

    #98588
    972
    Member

    I love butter beans and would have said thank you……

    #98589
    lynng2
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    Oh please, what a baby! Be grateful I feed you.

    They will never get it.

    #98590
    sickoftrying
    Participant

    Thank you Bev,

    At least u could have put them in the wave for a sec. Big baby is right.

    #98591
    liza
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    Bev, reminds me of the mashed potato incident with your SAH. 🙄

    #98592
    lynng2
    Participant

    I’ll mash his potato

    Gladly

    #98593
    kelly
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    I’ve been ANGRY for 10 years. I’m so sick and tired of being angry. Hate, anger, resentment, blahhhhh! They do not deserve to enjoy life and their children. It makes me sick. But I am ready for peace. If only we could stuff our feelings or simply not feel like they do. Someday, someday I’ll just go numb. I love reading and sharing with you all, but do you ever feel like you spend TOO much time here? Don’t our brains need a break from all this shit? Maybe we should all sign up for plenty of fish, cupid.com or match.com instead and fucking do whatever the fuck we want????

    Oh wait…. I hate men now:-(

    #98594
    kelly
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    And we might run into our husbands in there!!! LMAO!!!!
    sorry. not funny.

    #98595
    lynng2
    Participant

    In the 20 months since discovery I have taken several “breaks” from thinking of SA, and even from SOS. Sometimes I felt it was too much for me. I am going to take a break as soon as the papers are filed. I am not so angry as grieving, but that makes my fuse shorter as weird as that sounds. Just need to let it process.

    #98596
    kelly
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    I think we all need a girls night out. Who here lives in toledo, ohio?
    🙂

    #98597

    I hate them too.

    #98598
    jomard
    Participant

    I think the anger helps us not fall back into the fantasy expectations of the easy fix. Our anger protects us from falling for the empty promises. And sadly, I think the anger sometimes motivates my husband by making him fearful. But I don’t like what it does to my body- all revved up. But I totally get the “I hate my husband” feeling. I google searched the phrase the night after the second discovery and was shocked to find a website with stories of women talking about their no-good, rotten husbands. Yikes. there’s a website for everything.

    #98599
    sickoftrying
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    Anger is a good thing Kelly otherwise we get depressed. You have every right in the world for your anger.

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