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Wow. Reading through the responses has made me feel less alone and crazy, for aside from the urge to get “cheating” revenge, I too have sometimes wished he would just drop off the face of the Earth; car accident, bad illness, etc. I have also lashed out at him physically, primarily on all 3 d-days; I’m a strong chic so I did leave some marks, and one day whilst looking through his cell phone I saw pictures of the bruises..he had taken them to “use against” me if and when he needed to. Of course, I deleted them when I smashed his smartphone {that was loaded with porn and hooker sites} to pieces with a hammer {guess we all love the hammer thing}.
Spitting in his face has been done too many times to count. It no longer makes me feel better.
BTW..it must be meatloaf week because those were my plans for tomorrow….
Diane,
Your book titles made me laugh out loud. I love that I can laugh and cry with you all. One-stop shopping!
I had forgotten this…after my first -day in 2009, I ripped our wedding picture into shreds. Over the last year, I had started really feeling badly about that, and figured I’d have a reprint done. Then d-day #2 happened. Go figure… (Yup, definitely some inspiration on forigiveness is much needed!)Deborah and Lexie,
yes the suicide thereat is abusive and used as a means to control. Lexie is right. It is Emotional abuse. Check on a battered womens site, that is on the list of signs in your relationship, if he threatens suicide. It might be in the book the emotionally abusive relationship, of course I cannot remember who it is by. But there are so many other things that may not register with you as being abusive or controlling. Even having weapons in the house, can have an effect on you and therefore control.
I will see if I can find the site and link.Spitting…I hadn’t thought of that one.
new titles:
I’m So Mad I Could Spit
or
Is there really a Gob?okay, stop me.
D.How about this title:
“Hey honey, where’s my Meatloaf?”
Chapter 1. Putting your meatloaf in your neighbors oven
Chapter 12. (last chapter) Darn, I Burned the Meatloaf!What else can you do but laugh??
I was going to start a new thread, but then… realized that this is a good place for this post.
I found Predator online tonight and get this… He must’ve discovered the fountain of youth.
Either that or he has a painting in the attic of a rapidly decaying man, ala Dorian Gray!!! Okay…this is the part that I’m somewhat ashamed to admit, but I’m STILL looking for him and the only place I can really look is Craig’s List and the truth is… haven’t seen him in 5 months. I know just where to go too… the manho 4 MW section– couples are well, just so, so much less messy.But, anyway Predator’s real age is 45 but in the title he put 26 and in the body of the ad, he put 25!!! and he has some new pics too. How do I know its him? Well, he included one of his old pics, but its (much) sharper and larger than ever before, which he could only do, if he had the original. Ewww… he says that he’s “very clean”… NOPE!!!!!!!!!!
Since I hadn’t seen him online in a while… a part of me was thinking that maybe just maybe he had gotten his act together??????????????????
Vindication (for me) is the best revenge… and also… have to say his member doesn’t look so healthy… Its sad but I think in a lot of ways, it helps me to feel better. I tried and his partner kinda sorta tried… She thinks that he’s all cured.
Some of you might remember this true news item because it was picked up by several international wire services:
4 women in Wisconsin tie up cheating husband, glue his penis to his stomach
Tuesday 09th August, 05:46 PM JST
WISCONSIN WOMEN GLUE MAN’S PENISWAUSAU, Wis. —
A married man who planned to rendezvous with one of his handful of lovers at a Wisconsin motel instead found himself bound, blindfolded and assaulted by a group of women out for revenge, according to court documents.Four women, including his wife, eventually showed up to humiliate the man, who ended up with his penis glued to his stomach to punish him for a lover’s quadrangle gone bad, according to the documents filed in Calumet County.
Now it’s the women who face punishment, perhaps six years in prison, and at least one said Monday she’s embarrassed now.
“I am disturbed. I am upset. I am having a hard time handling life, an emotional wreck,” Wendy Sewell, 43, of Kaukauna, said in a telephone interview from her home. “I am ashamed.”
Sewell, Therese Ziemann, 48, of Menasha, Michelle Belliveau, 43, of Neenah, and the man’s wife are charged with being party to false imprisonment, a felony. Ziemann also is charged with fourth-degree sexual assault.
The women are free on $200 cash bail each. Investigators say all the women but Belliveau were romantically involved with the man.
The Associated Press is not naming the man’s wife to protect his identity as an alleged victim of sexual assault.
Online court records didn’t list defense attorneys for any of the women Monday.
The women’s plot for revenge unfolded last Thursday at the Lakeview Motel about 39 kilometers southwest of Green Bay in the tiny village of Stockbridge near the scenic shores of Lake Winnebago.
Criminal complaints filed Friday allege the man agreed to be bound with “sheer sheets” and blindfolded with a pillowcase for a “rub down” by Ziemann. She instead cut off his underwear with a scissors and summoned the others to the room.
Ziemann struck the man in the face, and used Krazy Glue to attach his penis to his stomach when the other women arrived, according to the complaint. The man told investigators he also was threatened with a gun.
Ziemann told investigators she didn’t have a gun but may have told the victim, “Do you know how much I want to shoot you?”
He started screaming and the women rushed off fearful that he could get loose and hurt them but allegedly took his wallet, vehicle and cell phone.
Ziemann told investigators she met the man online through Craigslist, fell in love and paid for a room at the motel for the past two months. She said she gave him about $3,000. Then last Wednesday, she learned from the man’s wife that he was married, had other girlfriends and was “using them for money.” She expected the money to be repaid, according to the documents.
During Thursday’s confrontation with the man, Ziemann told investigators that Sewell asked him, “Which one do you love more?” and the man’s wife made a derisive remark about him being scared.
The man got free from the bed by chewing through one of his bindings, went outside and borrowed a telephone from the motel owner to call police.
Ziemann and Belliveau are sisters and Belliveau didn’t do anything wrong, Sewell said Monday.
“She was just there for moral support. She wasn’t even dating the guy. She stood at the door the whole time and didn’t participate or nothing.”
UPDATE: All the women received one year of supervision and community service.
Talk about vicarious pleasure, or is that schadenfreude???
Maybe both. 😀
I mean who of us isn’t sitting here with a sly smirk on our faces? Quite frankly, I think its brilliant– uhh… idea that is! Gotta love those Wisconsinites. I spent a good portion of my adolescence/early 20’s there and my mom and sis still live there.
I have fantasized about a similar scenario, minus the crazy glue and anything else that could be considered “unlawful” with predator’s partner and baiting him into a situation where he thinks he’s going to be getting a new encounter, when its really his sweet partner waiting in lay for him and maybe some other people too.
Unfortunately, she did not want to believe that her “loved one” as she called him frequently in her blog was REALLY, ya know… “one of those SAs” and that “SEX ADDICT” wasn’t really an apt term. “Wish they had tried a little harder when coming up with a term to describe what is really going on.”
“He just has some issues with intimacy, so I am going to call what has an “intimacy disorder”– much more ‘on the money.'” Yep, that’s what she said.
But yes… its a really good lesson, because in our attempts to “even the score”, we could very well only be digging deeper and deeper into our own personal hellhole.
I just wish that they had taken all of his clothes before they left. 😉
So, what exactly are they putting in that Wisconsin cheese?
The only thing I know about Wausau is that there’s a really good church choir from there. I have one of their CD’s.
Who knew?
anyway, the lesson here is the we should keep our revenge on the hilariously hypothetical plane, or at least just shy of a criminal code violation.
Ann,
Thanks for sharing the news article. I have to admit I enjoyed every word of it. I wonder if he ever cheated again?
napOh man, I had the biggest laugh…maybe his penis is permanenty stuck to his stomach…oh, I can only hope. Those ladies must have been rolling in laughter while they were doing their dirty work…interesting they had to do community service…same thing he was doing…serving the community, if you know what I mean??? Serving the community his meatloaf!
NAP, that meatloaf story is hilarious…where can I buy the book…or are we all kind of living that nightmare book??? thanks for the great comments all the time. B. Trayed
Hi b.trayed,
Sometimes I get hit with the “silly stick” and have to rein in some of my thoughts. I love your comments too! So happy you are a sister and hope you feel welcome and loved.Love, nap
I love you ladies, you make me laugh! I used to dream of revenge like this: Some of our customers are local law enforcement officials. I had Soooo many times nearly called them into my office and set up a ‘surprise’ visit for him when he used to have his weekly hooker session after hours. My that would have been so satisfying to see him hauled off in the paddy wagon with his not so sexy fantasy girls. And, then seeing his face and name on the billboard down the street as a sex offender.
Lindy
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