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Oh Cindy,
God, i hope you are okay and that you will post some good news. I’m praying for you.
Much love, Claire
((Cindy)) My God..I am so sorry. He was stealing the home equity loans?? wtf? I don’t even have words to express how angry I am for you. All the shit they put us through is way bad enough, but your husband takes the cake. The situation he and his lawyer have put you in is just plain criminal. I wish I could make it all better, Cindy, but I believe in the power of prayer and I will keep you in my prayers and my heart. xoxo
Cindy – I truly hope that you found the energy today to go see another attorney, or legal aid. I’m praying for your strength and for the grace of God.
Big hug,
Deb
I’m so sorry to hear what happened Cindy. I certainy hope there is some legal recourse for you. How can these assholes betray us and somehow come out ahead? It’s ridiculous. And as other Sisters have said, perhaps it looks like he came out ahead on paper, but in reality, you are better off – free from him, with your own mental health and good heart.
What did happen? This is so infuriating. I was talking the other day with Strongere and it is just so unjust that partners are losing their livelihoods, children are suffering, and there appear to be NO consequences for the SA because they are weasels and we partners are trying to keep peace because it’s the easier path. How many posts have I read in the last few days (Lynn , Lisa) where they are not rocking the boat because they fear it will cause them tremendously more harm than before. This includes me, too. I am sitting back waiting for SA to file paperwork first because I know I a kicking the hornets nest if I file first. But I also know that when all finally happens, we’ll resolve it and he’ll move on with no consequences (most likely).
Cindy was close to Nap I believe. There is no info in her profile. It was this thread that had me in a panic when I went to mediation, and it was as awful as she said. I never want to have to go through that again. I will wait for him to file I think.
Maybe NAP can update us if she still has her info, I hope so.
Now that I have the separation agreement, I can wait for mine to file, too. I like having that choice, but I’m not sure I will have the patience. Just want it OVER.
Hello all,
Thanks for asking about me. I am still here. I have been trying to get my life back in order. I think of you all and hold you all close to my heart. So much to write about and I have not been able to find the strength. I am doing OK. I am divorced, still recovering. I hope to be able to send some more update sometime soon. Stay strong all of you, miss and love you!!Cindy! Thank you so much for letting us know you are okay. I think about you often and wonder how you’re doing. Update us when you can.
Love,
DaisyI have been thinking of you often Cindy. I understand the inability to post and reply. I am praying for your healing and I hope to see you back posting soon. In the meantime…..be good to yourself. We all love and care about you.
Cindy, I’m very sorry this has ended so strangely and painfully.
I continue to believe in you and the value of your life. You will make a new start, but take all the time you need. Just know you are never more than a thought away.
warm hugs to you,
D.Cindy, I am so glad you posted. Hang in there! It is YOUR life now and you will get it into a new order, a better order, where truth and happiness rule. I am rooting for you! Sending love your way.
Cindy, It is so good to hear your voice! Thankyou for checking in. I’ve thought of you often and worried about you. I know how hard it is to post an update but, if you can, please tell us what has happened in your life.
Have a good summer and love on yourself. XOXO Debora
I miss Cindy too. I hope she’s ok. Think about her often. Much love to you, Cindy and I hope one day you check in to tell us you’re happy and healthy. xoxo
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