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I read a book called “Romantic Deception” and the therapist who wrote that book suggest a background check…including court papers (public info) to see if he really is divorced or how many times he’s been married. I can tell you the next guy I fall for, I’m having a P.I. follow him before I get too attached.
Lynn – your SAH was very creepy on the show. Sorry to say…. I kept on scratching my head because you are out of his league – smarts, looks, charisma – you name it. You deserve so much better!
I’m also a creep magnet – first husband (lasted only a year) was a physical batterer – and this one, seemed wonderful on the surface, but had his secret life for 10 years (maybe more). I think I attract others who have wounded childhoods. Both my ex and my current SA have really screwed up childhoods. I think that’s the key thing to avoid if possible. But one reason people are attracted to one another is to heal each other…..so be careful.
I’m so glad that you blocked him from your phone and are taking precautions should he come looking for you. Please keep us posted. We are here for you.
Deb
Well, by all means if we are gonna call a spade…. Let’s not single out Lynn’s husband only!! WE ALL MARRIED FUCKING CREEPS!!’
Helllllloooooo?????
I’m pretty sure, no matter what your story is- if you are on this board- YOUR HUSBAND IS A CREEP. Even the ones who do “just porn” and sit around and beat off all damn day. STILL A CREEP!
I could give a shit less what he looks like. These guys are all creeps. Matter a fact, if he looks really decent AND he does this shit….he just might even be a BIGGER creep. A hot creep. STILL A CREEP.
We may not get to view your SA on national television…. And most of us don’t have the balls to do what Lynn did…. And yeah, her husband was a lying jackass on the show, but guess what?? We all married lying jackasses!
I know this original post is from Lynn… And she tells us that her husband is stalking her and she is now afraid of him- but it just seems kind of mean to me to jump on here and point out how creepy and ugly her husband is. I mean, he is her husband. (hopefully not for long)…. But some of the words written struck a chord with me…. I don’t know why and I’m sorry if this reply is out of line….
It’s just that we all, equally, for whatever our reasons are….married lying, cheating, sicko creeps. One is not creepier than the other…. They are ALL creeps. 🙁
I think if we lined them all up we’d see ugly, creepy, worts, beady eyes, fake smiles, sneers. ect. I agree with SL, they are all ugly and creepy in their own way. My Xh stopped by today to give me some papers (actually called first for once) is going back to college to he can work with children??? Now that’s super creepy!!!!
You can see my creep here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=deptbFwmBAM&feature=plcpHe’s the doc that does most of the talking in the gray suit and red tie.
Dang!! Won’t pull up on my phone!!! Can’t wait to get to a computer, lol!! Thanks Teri for today’s entertainment!
Gladly, SL. I am outing myself and my creepy STBX today! It feels pretty good. Lynn, sorry to highjack your post! Now you can see that you are not the only one that doesn’t have a very good creep detector!
Dear God Teri… Your creep looks a lot like my creep!! A little unsettling and I could pick up on the creep vibe too. Your MIL is a piece of work for sure! Love your avatar though!! You are soooo pretty 🙂
Good for you Teri!!! You are out of the closet in several ways!!!! Ha!!!
You are so adorable and your SA is such an idiot!! Rock on, Teri!!! Your life will be so much better once this BS is behind you!!!
Ahem, that goes for all of us!!! 🙂
Teri,
Hugs to you for sharing. I have to say, I would not spot your SA as a creep either. I am hopeless.
Maybe I need Lasik
I agree with SL. They are ALL creeps and we all had the benefit of foreknowledge( is that the right word?) when we saw Lynn’s husband on TV. Trying to pick the suckers out of the general population is decidely more challenging. The thing that worries me about Lynn’s guy is if he is actually a danger to her. He has always come across as particularly crazy and seems to talk in circles and doesn’t make sense. He makes me nervous so please keep your radar up and gun close Lynn until he diverts his attention.
Teri….how you have grown girl. 🙂 Karen xNo kidding Teri, you are an inspiration, and beautiful too.
Lynng–you made me spit out my tea laughing at the lasik. You not hopeless, though. If you were still with your creepy crawler I would be concerned, but honey you’re packin now.
I hope you aren’t ticked at me, March! I was just sort of cringing when I read the straight up insults… And I really don’t know why? We say all kinds of rude things about these guys every day – sometimes with ME leading the pack!!
But this time- it reminded me of a situation back in HighSchool…. I really, REALLY Thought that I could not STAND my brother!! Ugh! (one year older than me and a total jerk to me almost constantly). I would complain about him to my friends constantly- calling him every name in the book, etc. Then, one day my friend joined in and said, yeah…he really IS a dick….and he’s kinda fat too. OMG!! It instantly pissed me off and I went off on her, lol…. Apparently, “I” could say whatever I wanted about him…but no one else could get away with it!!
Today, he is as handsome as ever and one of my best friends!
Anyway…. I know we have thick skin around here (thank God!) and perhaps Lynn doesn’t even mind….
So, I dunno…. It just seemed a little extra rude to me so I spoke up! Definitely hope I didn’t offend you or anyone!
And PS- feel free to call my SA anything you want at any time! Whether or not it makes a difference that I am long gone… I have no idea!!
XOXO!
SL,
You are so sweet to think of that, and I do wish I could take up for the man I married, my funny, charming guy. But… that’s not him. Its confusing as hell to have to keep interacting with everyone on the basis that it is. This SAH is a stranger, who took away everything with a shrug of his shoulders. I tried to pretend for a while that this was just a factor of the shock and I would recognize him again someday
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