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  • December 29, 2013 at 12:04 pm #8970
    nap
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    Let’s say you are married and your h once or twice a week (maybe even more) spits in your face. Just out of nowhere, spit, right to the face. Totally disgusting and disrespectful. Is this someone we would dissect and try to figure out? Is this someone we would spend more time and energy on than ourselves? Would we envy his next wife?

    What are your thoughts?

    December 29, 2013 at 12:31 pm #121609
    972
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    I have long since stopped trying to dissect or figure him out or “untangle the skein of fuckedupedness “…

    The next time he spits in my face he will find himself toothless 🙂

    December 29, 2013 at 5:21 pm #121610
    gail
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    Maybe before I was wiser to these sick guys, I would have tried to analyse the behaviour. But not where I am now. I would walk away and definitely not envy his wife, I would feel pity for her though

    December 29, 2013 at 9:32 pm #121611
    lynng2
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    Good one, NAP

    December 29, 2013 at 10:38 pm #121612
    diane
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    I think that would be as Tina Fey said in 30 Rock “a dealbreaker”.

    December 30, 2013 at 11:43 am #121613
    trish
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    Wow! Very succinct!

    December 31, 2013 at 5:58 pm #121614
    cede
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    Like the analogy. Very appropriate and good to keep in mind. No envy here.

    December 31, 2013 at 8:15 pm #121615
    maryreddy
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    Touche Nap! IMO trying to figure him out is a shock stage symptom. Skip shock and go right to anger!

    December 31, 2013 at 8:41 pm #121616
    teri
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    Spitting in our faces would not be nearly as gross as the actual bodily fluids they bring home to us.

    January 3, 2014 at 9:30 am #121617
    kristenmanning
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    Great post..the whole spit topic reminded me that my 22 year old son always told to be extra nice to the drive through staff.. which took me to this thought process.. I think if they spit in your face everyday it would be as simple as bev said he’d loose his teeth.. What they do is spit in your burgers for fucking years and you don’t know you’ve been eating shit sandwiches!! Food for thought!

    January 3, 2014 at 11:41 am #121618
    lisak
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    good point kristen.
    what they do is devious and hidden. much worse than open disrespect and abuse.

    January 3, 2014 at 4:18 pm #121619
    monique
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    Wow I love both analogies. DDay is the spit in the face. The lying, hiding, manipulative fucktard is the shit sandwich asshole. Shit in your sandwich! Noooo. I would NEVER put shit in your sandwich. I LOVE you. It tastes like shit you say? Hmmmm Noooo, I don’t think so. It looks perfectly fine to me. Maybe it’s you. Maybe you WANT it to taste like shit. Maybe you like shit! No I made that sandwich with love and now you are questioning my sandwich making skills. You are so damn picky. Why do you always act like I am the bad guy? Here I make you a sandwich, and all you do is say it tastes like shit! You are so ungrateful. And now you’ve hurt my feelings. That’s right honey, after the first bite it tastes just like ham. Carry on! 🙂

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