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  • #4603
    annabegins
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    Hi ladies
    Have been meaning to reintroduce myself for sometime
    I used annabegins as a code name to secretly spy on my husband on various websites in the beginning and is the email address I used to sign up for this site
    I wasn’t sure I would be staying on the site for long and was so embarrassed about this whole s a thing and craved annonymity.
    Lately I’ve been taking off my mask. Peeling back they layers, working on me. So to quote one of my all time favorite songs ‘it’s time I re-introduced myself to the world,show them what I’m all about. Even if is just so they can chew me up and turn their heads and spit me out.’ Love me some Jennifer nettles before sugar land!
    So hi everyone, love Stacy

    #33033
    bonnieb
    Participant

    Stacy–I am so happy to know you! Thank you for sharing yourself with us. I think everyone here is so real and intimate, that really a name (or a picture for that matter) hardly matters. But I am glad that we can open up to each other in all these ways. WE have nothing to be ashamed of! So very nice to meet you! xoxo

    #33034
    joann
    Participant

    Hey Stacy,

    You may or may not want to change the name as it appears next to your avatar. You can do that by editing your profile. If you cannot figure it out and you want to change your screen name just let me know and I will do it for you.

    You may want to do something like annabegins-stacy, or just leave it as it is and continue to sign your name as Stacy. We’ll figure it out no matter what you do.

    I’m so glad that you feel comfortable enough to use your real name.

    Hugs ~ JoAnn

    #33035
    silver-lining
    Participant

    Hi Stacy!!

    I think it’s awesome that you have reached this comfort zone with us!! I’m Patty but will forever be called Silver or SL, lol, and that’s ok!! When we had our retreat, we all kept accidently using SOS names instead and it was funny! 🙂

    Kudos for working on YOU.

    YOU are who matters to US!!

    Love,

    Patty

    #33036
    annabegins
    Participant

    Ty patty!
    Silver SL
    We need to do another retreat!!!
    And would not be in the place I am now without SOS. The advice on this site has helped me move so much more quickly than I ever would have alone
    I would never have stopped with the checking up with the work on me, w the boundaries had I not been given such support and advice here
    When my husband came downstairs a few weeks ago and tried to force disclosure on me in that moment, I would not have found my voice and stood u to him the way I did
    You are all so very important to me in this process. And it is moving along
    I’m fortunate in that my husband is taking this pretty seriously but I needed to realize and be informed that I have to take it just as seriously for things to work out the way they are supposed to for me!
    So Ty to you all!!!
    Headed to another disclosure prep appt blech

    #33037
    diane
    Participant

    Woohoo Stacy!
    Stay grounded in your being. You power and strength comes from knowing who you are, honouring that, and insisting that others respect your humanity and dignity.
    Stay grounded in your being.
    Imagine your feet growing roots down into the ground.

    #33038
    kmf
    Member

    OMG Stacy… I will have a hard time getting Anna out of my head but I will know who you are! Welcome, welcome, welcome…..may this be the start of u peeling back the layers in your life. 😉 Karen xx

    #33039
    teri
    Participant

    Good for you, Stacy. When I signed up (was it only yesterday?), I had a hard time deciding whether or not to hide my identity, so I can totally relate to why you would want that protection until you felt safe.

    You did nothing wrong; you have no reason to be embarrassed.

    #33040
    nap
    Participant

    Good for you Stacy!!! You’re a joy and really pretty!

    Love, Nap

    #33041
    nap
    Participant

    Good for you Stacy!!! You’re a joy and really pretty!

    Love, Nap

    #33042
    ksondy
    Participant

    Well damn! Now I’m going to be confused. Just kidding! I’m so happy you’re feeling better about yourself and more. comfortable.

    #33043
    harmony1
    Participant

    So Nice meeting you Stacy, I would love to get to know you more,
    you had just introduced me to Jennifer Nettles ( I have to admit I have very little eduction in music 🙂 and she seems to be another powerful inspiring woman.
    I am also new here, and I am so much looking forward to walking that unchartted path with you and other sisters on this site.

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