Need your help in drafting this letter please girls??

OK so it is clear as daylight to me that this dude has no money. So I agreed to sign the maintenance order, with or as he wants it without medical cover for the kids. I sign and I give my attorney instructions to write to as Kimberley calls her My “Monster” in law and ask her to contribute towards the electricity every month and to make payments into my bank account. Some of you know the history of this one. So my attorney sends me this response from Mr Monster himself.
“Hi Sandie
My mother received a letter from you yesterday in relation to payment for electricity. I don’t appreciate the fact that Gail instructed you to resort to this kind of communication. My mother is an 80 year old lady and receiving a lawyers letter at her age is disconcerting and traumatic for her to say the least. We have been paying the electricity timeously every month and this request from Gail is superficial, demeaning and patronising. I am aware that you are under instruction from her but would appreciate it if you would consider the merits of her request before acting on her instruction.
In the past Gail would inform me via an SMS that the prepaid electricity units are low. I would then purchase the value of R200 units for two weeks per month. Since last month I made an electronic transfer of R400 into my son’s account for the electricity. So it is not like she has not received any payment for electricity, on the contrary, there were times when she failed to inform me that the units were low and then my mother would sit at home all day without electricity and not even be able to make her a cup of tea.
I will henceforward make the transfer of R400 into her account on behalf of my mother.
Regards
Roger Roman

I would not like to respond as follows to my lawyer with a copy to him of course, and here is where Im gonna need your help sisters please.

Dear Sandie
Thank you for forwarding Rogers comments regarding the electricity. Please continue executing my instruction addressed to Mrs Maud Roman who is the occupant on the property at 16 Bud Road Retreat. The respondent in the maintenance matter is clearly not stable financially, given the amount of times the temporary order had been changed. Furthermore, the respondent, according to the Plea made by the Respondent which was submitted to the Wynberg Magistrates Court and which was a response to my application for Variation to Protection Order, states that the Respondent resides in Hermanus. This statement is untrue as the Respondent in fact resides with his mother. This fact has been brought to the Magistrates attention as the respondent has lied under oath.
The evidence (which you have in your possession for preparation for the divorce matter) of the Respondent’s double life, risky behaviour from professionals who treated the Respondent, as well as the latest evidence given by his niece LYNWEN ROMAN to my next door neighbour Mr Mortimer Petersen, of how the respondent touched her inappropriately, kicked our son between the legs and forced him to smoke, are incidents which would be traumatic for Mrs Maud Roman to deal with. Definitely not ensuring that she has electricity.
It is in the best interest of Mrs Maud Roman that she pays the electricity monies into my account as she has indeed been without electricity because of the respondents interests being risky and expensive, which has caused her to not make her a cup of tea.