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  • August 21, 2011 at 10:14 pm #3570
    lexie
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    i realize that we have nothing to celebrate on our 23rd anniversary of wedded blissters, but I didn’t even get my usual cheap, dead super market flowers.(and he went to pick up a few things as we have two bottomless carnivores living with us)

    wait, i better check.

    phew.

    i DID get a roll of paper towels, however.

    ahhhh… love…

    August 21, 2011 at 10:46 pm #17175
    lylo
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    Nothing quite like an anniversary to magnify the absurdity of it all and the disappointments you feel. We celebrate you today even if he isn’t man enough to give you flowers to throw at him!! Love, Lylo

    August 21, 2011 at 10:54 pm #17176
    nap
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    He should be dancing on the moon for you Lexie! It’s his loss and the poor bas*ard doesn’t even realize it.

    August 21, 2011 at 10:58 pm #17177
    diane
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    Lexie, I’ve seen your picture. YOu are so beautiful.
    Lexie is sexie.

    xo
    D.

    August 21, 2011 at 11:11 pm #17178
    lexie
    Participant

    LOL— oh you guys are so sweet and have put the first smile I’ve had on this tired face today. I think I’ll go take a shower now.

    Sexie Smexie Lexie! 😉

    August 22, 2011 at 12:48 am #17179
    zumbagirl
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    You’re in my heart, today, Lexie. You deserve someone amazing and nothing less. XOXO

    August 22, 2011 at 2:55 am #17180
    sharron
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    Lexie- You are in my heart, as well. So sorry for the hurt and pain. I think I posted what I think your’e husband deserves.
    Love ya

    August 22, 2011 at 3:58 am #17181
    silver-lining
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    Lex, 

    I have been thinking about you (and JoAnn) in particular all weekend. My heart hurts for you both… You are such an open book and unafraid to lay your heart and soul out there for all (of us) to see and I love that about you. 
    Lexie, if you had the time to go back and read every post/comment you have written on this site and MTASA, you would find that you have all the intelligence and strength to get through this nightmare. You are sooooooo smart and perceptive and REAL. It’s easy to give advice to others but when it’s yourself, well…. Not so easy, huh? But you CAN do this and you will do this!!! Read your responses!! Read your advice! Your answers are in your own backyard! 
    I’ve said it before, but please know that I mean it – if I can help, in ANY capacity, please ask!! I would be honored and happy to do so!!! 

    XOXOXO!!!!! 

    August 22, 2011 at 8:47 am #17182
    kmf
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    Dear Lexie,
    It feels like it will kill you but it won’t. Anniversaries, holidays, fond memories….they trigger much grief and pain because they remind us of the way we hoped things would be…the way we thought things were? I too, had a 25th anniversary that was a complete non event. He suggested a weekend away during a 1 week business trip of his to Jakarta. I arrrived on a Thursday and bought myself a silver bracelet. It wasn’t until 5 months later, I found out he was with a hooker in our hotel room the night before I arrived. He and I slept in the same bed. I don’t do anniversaries anymore…that was my last.

    I am very sorry neither of us got what we deserved. I believe in Karma, what goes around comes around. You will have your time ,Lexie, and so will he. Karen xo

    August 22, 2011 at 2:03 pm #17183
    lylo
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    Oh yuck, Karen. So sorry for all that you have had to face. You will reap the benefits of the wisdom you have gained. If it is possible to get past the bitterness, that wisdom will become part of your beauty. Glad to have you here. Xo Lylo

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