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May 7, 2012 at 1:59 am #4769joannParticipant
Please give hugs and a welcome to our newest Sister, dcyne.
Dcyne wrote in her profile that she is the:
Wife of sex addict. Found out January 17, 2012
Welcome dcyne, you are not alone in your journey any more. Take some time to browse through the topics and comments and get to know us and jump right in with your questions or comments any time you are ready.
Just let us know what you need. we are here for you.
Love and hugs ~ JoAnn
May 7, 2012 at 2:15 am #36388hadj608Participantwelcome dcyne. I am guessing the last 4 months have been complete hell for you. I am so sorry you find your self in this awful place. The support I get from this site is what saved me. There are no dumb questions here, feel free to ask anyone anything. If you go to stories under groups you can get to anyone’s story. Everyone here is in different places so don’t be put off if some people have lost hope for saving their marriage. They have tried everything (me!) and just still want answers. You will find unconditional love here and lots of wisdom. These ladies have done their homework!
May 7, 2012 at 2:53 am #36389dobbyParticipantTo dcyne-i ‘m new here too. I’m sorry for what you are going through. I have found empathy in this site,please know you are not alone.
oMay 7, 2012 at 3:48 am #36390kimberelyMemberWelcome fellow sister….
Hopefully you will find solace here, as all of us have. Some are here round the clock. Just holler or jump in if you need anything, as Joann has said. She is our mother hen here and keeps a watchful, loving and supportive eye on ALL of us as we find our way.
Open arms all around…. 🙂
For nowMay 7, 2012 at 1:57 pm #36391dianeParticipantHi dcyne,
and welcome to the site, where you can discover all kinds of things! Reading the old posts will reveal how many women have similar experiences and feelings to yours. We also share resources, questions, insights, and we challenge the prevailing winds on the whole field of treating sex addicts/compulsives/pd’s and their partners. It’s never dull. Along the way we laugh and cry and hold each other up when it’s hard to be in the lives we are in. And we discover hope, right there in ourselves.
Okay, we don’t do all of that all at once.
lots of light to you,
D.May 7, 2012 at 3:10 pm #36392napParticipantHi dcyne,
Welcome to SOS and to all the great care and support. I too was in a long term marriage 25 yrs of wedded blisslessness. I discovered his SA in Oct 2010. The sisterhood is very open and accepting. Welcome!
Love, NapMay 7, 2012 at 3:32 pm #36393lizaParticipantHello dcyne, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with such trauma and betrayal. Please know we all know what that feels like. Let us know what you need. Love, Liza
May 7, 2012 at 4:43 pm #36394deboraParticipantWelcome dcyne,
A pretty long marraige here too, 26 years and thinking that I wouldn’t want to be finding out at 37 years. I am truly sorry for your pain and loss. We here have different stories but eerily similar experiences with our partners behavior and our relationship with them. I found so much compfort knowing that other women felt EXACTLY like I did, that I wasn’t crazy, like he said I was and that there is sharing of information and recovery strategies for us that we haven’t found anywhere else.
So, how did you find out?
debora
May 7, 2012 at 11:24 pm #36395annabeginsParticipantWelcome dcyne
Wishing you the best in your journey
It’s very difficult. ESP early in discovery. Try to be gentle w you during all the ups downs twists and turns
This is a place you can feel safe to ask, vent question
We are here for support no matter the road you chooseMay 8, 2012 at 12:06 am #36396kmfMemberHello Dcyne,
Well…I am guessing you no longer know which end of your life is up or down? 🙁 But take heart…we all understand the pain and confusion. Read, look around and jump in any time you feel comfortable. We are a mixed bag of tricks but we all share the same experience. I hope you find some comfort here.
Karen xx -
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