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March 3, 2014 at 1:32 am #9332
joann
ParticipantPlease offer your usual caring welcome to our newest Sister, lyinglawyerswife.
lyinglawyerswife wrote in her profile that she joined the Sisterhood because:
I recently discovered my husband of one year is a sex addict. Severely traumatizedWelcome lyinglawyerswife and yes, you are severely traumatized and you are wise to realize that the emotions you are feeling IS because of that trauma and it is not your fault.
I am so sorry that you have made this discovery at a time when your marriage and new life together should hold promise and joy.
We understand and we will be there with you through this. Just let us know what you need, we are all here for you.
Love and light for your journey. ~ JoAnn
March 3, 2014 at 1:44 am #128697tmp271
MemberLove your screen name!
You are indeed traumatized. Thank God you figured this out early in the marriage. Some of us didn’t find out until we were married 10,20,30,40 years.
You came to the right place for support. There is not much out there for the partners.
This site has helped me immensely . I hope it does the same for youMarch 3, 2014 at 2:38 am #128698diane
ParticipantOh honey,
thanks for not holding back!
I hope you will find the info, support, questions, and even a few laughs here to help you make good decisions for your life.
I’m sorry this truck hit you, but I wish I hadn’t wasted three decades before finding out!
Light for your journey,
Diane.March 3, 2014 at 3:32 am #128699972
MemberHi LLW… I have to admit your screen name gave me a good laugh. None of this is funny but your name pretty much says it all.
Now, welcome and I am very sorry you need to be here. It is traumatizing to say the least. I know it may not feel like it now but it is good you found this after only 1 year. You have a chance at a life….post whenever you feel ready. You’re safe here.
March 3, 2014 at 4:02 am #128700barbra
MemberGlad you found us …wishing you much strength
March 3, 2014 at 4:20 am #128701lynng2
ParticipantWelcome LLW,
Well, that’s just the pits. I can empathize, I found out 3 days before my first anniversary. It’s really a major shock to realize that your glowing honeymoon and newlywed times were not what you thought, at all. The shock is a bitch, and the overwhelming emotions can make you feel crazy. You’re not crazy, it’s a crazy situation.
This place is a lifesaver, glad you found us. Sorry you needed to, but if you need support for the trainwreck of discovering your spouse is a sexual compulsive/asshole/pathological liar/serial jerk this is THE place to be.
You aren’t crazy, you’re traumatized. There’s a big, big difference.
Hugs,
Lynn
March 3, 2014 at 4:36 am #128702teri
ParticipantI am in the love your screen name camp, too. Welcome, Lying Lawyer’s Wife. I hate why you are here and all the pain of that, but I am glad you found us. I hope you find what you need here with the sisters.
March 3, 2014 at 7:00 am #128703liza
ParticipantQ: What’s the difference between a lawyer and a liar?
A: The pronunciation.Too soon? 😈 In all seriousness, I’m really sorry – and I fucking hate that you’re in this situation. But I’m so glad you’ve found your way to the ‘Hood. We’ll help you sort it all out. Love, Liza
March 3, 2014 at 2:11 pm #128704nap
ParticipantWelcome to SOS LyingLawyerswife, i understand the trauma you feel. It’s a shock to discover. I was married 25 yrs when I found my xh ‘secret life’. It’s very painful. I hope you will post when you can.
Love, NapMarch 3, 2014 at 10:50 pm #128705ali
Memberhahahah! Loving the screen name 🙂
Sorry for the horrible discovery that you’ve made. I remember the absolute anger and terror when I found out. It all just sucks. We’re here to hold each other together and try to have the best life possible, after the devastating discovery.
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