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Please give your usual warm and supportive welcome to our newest Sister, MomOf4.
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He says its my over active imagination or is it my gut?
Welcome Mom. We are here to support you and give you resources, suggestions and our collective wisdom to help you sort through your doubts and fears.
Take some time and browse through all the topics and comments, and just jump right in with your questions.
We are here for you. Just tell us what you need.
Love and light to you. ~ JoAnn
Hello Momof4
And welcome to the sisterhood. I hope you will find the kind of information and support that will ensure you do not let him doubt yourself anymore.
We all have to find our own way, but sharing the experiences and questions really helps each person do that.
Sorry you have this nightmare in your life, but glad you reached out,
D.Hello MO4, you write: ‘He says its my overactive imagination or is it my gut?’. Well, Sister, in order to figure out which it is, you will need to become a MI5 (Espionage Agent). The Sisters have quite a few tricks up their sleeves to help you, and JoAnn can hook you up with some awesome tools. Trust me, though, it’s your gut and it’s speaking to you loud and clear. I completely understand the need for confirmation of your fears, so become a master spy. Beat him at his own game. (I would have normally dropped an f-bomb by now, but I am trying not to scare the new sisters 😉 Welcome to the Sisterhood! Love, Liza
Hi, Momof4,
I am a true believer in listening to your gut, but it does help when you have the validation of some hard evidence.Welcome to our group and make yourself at home. We kinda let it all hang out around here. It’s a safe place where you can be yourself- whether you want to laugh or cry or both at the same time.
Welcome! You are truly among family here. It’s a great support source during the calm and the crazy storm of sex addiction. Sorry you ended up like we did all thanks to our loving husband’s.
Welcome! You are truly among family here. It’s a great support source during the calm and the crazy storm of sex addiction. Sorry you ended up like we did all thanks to our loving husbands.
Hey Momof4,
I am so sad you ended up in this mess but so glad you found this site. I have only been here a couple of months but these nice ladies have been wonderful. Ihave even laughed a few times:)
I do not know your situation but always listen to your gut. I didn’t and I am so sorry.Bev
Hello Mom of 4,
If your gut is talking, it is time to listen carefully? Read or jump in and post as soon as you are ready. You can run what he says to you, by us. Most of us speak fluent SA and we can often translate what he is really saying. I am sorry u have to be here, but am glad u found us. Karen xx
Hi Momof4,
A big hug to you as you follow your gut instincts. You have followed them to the right place, right here with us. You can breath now, we are here.
(((((hugs Cindy)))))
E-blaster has truly been my friend. I don’t trust my gut because it let me down for 22 years…..
Welcome Mom to 4!!! (I also have 4 children).
Deb
Welcome mo4! I am so sorry you found yourself here. There is lots of support and info here. You will be amazed how alike our situations are. Everyone here is at different stages, don’t be afraid to ask questions anytime.
When I first got hit with this -18 mo. ago, every therapist we saw wrote down on their interview pad when I said I this unexplainable feeling in my gut. Gosh, I wish I had know that wasn’t just my weird nerves. I now believe we have a sixth sense. Three biggies that will give you clues about your h, They deny, lie , minimize. Test him out with something simple like were you late picking up the kids? Sorry, you in the watch dog club now.
Hugs
Heidi
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