Please Welcome Our New Sister,Deedee

Very true. My SAH is in the process of moving out now. I think he finally realizes I mean business.

Yes, I’m better. Thanks for listening. I don’t think I would have made it through the call with my mom if I hadn’t’t spoken to you first. I am so great full for you and the other ladies here. Thank you. We are making progress on our end. There was one more yelling match, but things have settled a bit and SAH has gotten the picture that separating would be in the best interest for every one. The kids still don’t know, I feel like my oldest -(she’ll be 11 next week) knows something is up. She did hear some of the arguing when he was still fighting leaving the other day. Her birthday is next Sat. and we’re planning on taking her to dinner together, so they won’t know until sometime after that. I’m trying to wait until he finds a place to stay, but right now he’s at a hotel, next week I’m not sure where he’ll be, but I told him I don’t want him sleeping here especially after the Gil’s know b/c I don’t want them to be confused. So I think we’ll be able to separate without getting lawyers involved, we can communicate and be civil. The girls had a chorus performance tonight and we all drove together, he realized this is the type of thing he’ll miss out on if he doesn’t get himself together. So we are making progress. It doesn’t help that his mom with cancer has been in and out of the hospital twice this week and is not doing too well right now. Thanks for asking.

hi deedee,
Welcome to the sisterhood. I am so sorry for the pain that brought you here. Thank you for sharing your story.

MissE

I am thinking of you and focusing good energy in your direction. I am just sickened that these men hurt their children. It is so wrong. I am saying extra prayers for your girls. I have a whole prayer list filled with the kids from this site.