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And don’t freak too much about the demand for 50% custody. Most of these guys don’t want to look after their own children. It’s terribly inconvenient to their masturbation schedules and their hook-ups with men and women they don’t know in order to fuck someone’s asshole or suck someone’s penis. Do you have any idea how hard it is to find someone to put the panty hose on without being interrupted by some child who had a bad dream and needs to be comforted. Terribly inconvenient. Children require things like…well…meals and clean clothes and help with homework.
I’m serious here. It’s a useful threat to scare you, but ultimately they don’t want their children, it’s just too much work when they have more important penis things to do.Get eblaster on his computer.
Michelle
My dear Michelle…I’ve been where you are. Please don’t make the same mistakes I did. Call me sometime and I’ll go into the mistakes that I made and how it affected me (and affected the chances of a healthy marriage). It’s too much to write here. My sah also has a fetish and we have four kids.
Deb
I truly believe we should have a a “no-panty-hose” day, or week or something, in support of our dear Michelle.
Let’s join together and simply refuse to wear them in the bedroom, the boardroom, the classroom, the family room, or wherever your day normally takes you. Just say no. No pantyhose.
ps glad I made you laugh, March, that makes my day worthwhile.
D.xo
Michelle, I have to say, you have a special place in my heart for your LEGGS. 😀 Good God, HOW does someone “get off” on hose or feet??!! Michelle, listen to these women, you are SO LUCKY to have found this site EARLY! Keep reading these posts and you will soon find the strength and knowledge to make the best decision for you and your children. Someone asked about my SA’s relapse. Well, you know, being NON-coda, I wasn’t addicted to him or tracking him (I second the eBlaster advice, I wish I would have done that) ALL of my SA evidence has just fallen in my lap…I just happened to be in a big city near our small town and crossed paths with him and his newly hired Secretary (which was a boundary breaker in his recovery plan bc all of his affairs were women at work.) Then my 12 Step Sponsor told me I had to have him polygraphed and I balked at that…she INSISTED, so I did and found out he was using porn at work while I’m home full time with his 4 kids. “No big deal” he told me in typical addict style, “all the IT reports come to him.” I knew then and there I had to get out and so I spent a year leading him to believe I MIGHT be staying while I planned my exit. It was very Julia Roberts-etsque, and I am, Sleeping With The Enemy. I wish I could shoot him! 🙂
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