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April 11, 2012 at 3:43 pm #4628
debinca
ParticipantYou guys seem to know everything….
My SAH gets these phone sex emails ads (see below from my Eblaster). Just wondering….does this mean that he was/is into phone sex? And if so, how did he pay for it? (I manage all our finances so I would have spotted it).
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profileApril 11, 2012 at 3:48 pm #33508sharron
ParticipantSounds like he responded to Adrianna? I just pulled the site up and it is an advertisement. At the very least, he was scanning the sites. The site showed her in Prairie Village, (My town)so she advertises to everyone.
April 11, 2012 at 3:51 pm #33509joann
ParticipantThose are spam ads. You only get them if you have been on porn sites. They set cookies and you are spammed with these ads.
There is no way to determine if he ever used phone sex from this.
April 11, 2012 at 3:57 pm #33510debinca
ParticipantThanks JoAnn. So – now Sharron will get these (since she went on it)…..Sharron – sorry about that. But just view these as a reminder of why you left.
April 11, 2012 at 4:02 pm #33511joann
ParticipantI don’t think Sharron will get e-mails if she did not put her e-mail address anywhere. But, she may start getting pop up or pop under porn ads from the cookie that was set. To stop that all you have to do is go into your browser settings and find that site on the cookie list and delete it or simply delete all your cookies.
A majority of these sites won’t let you on unless you put your e-mail address in–then they sell these lists to other porn type businesses.
And these stupid guys do it. Of course, some use made up e-mails, and some have dozens of e-mail accounts. So Deb, I guess you can at least have the satisfaction of knowing that your husband is stupid.
April 11, 2012 at 4:44 pm #33512debinca
ParticipantYes, Joanna – he is that. Naive is more like it. But he still managed to hide his “stuff” from me for 6 years (probably longer).
April 11, 2012 at 5:42 pm #33513nap
ParticipantStupid or he just doesn’t care.
April 11, 2012 at 6:53 pm #33514972
Membermy dumbass used his e-mail and our cc to pay!! He was big into phone sex ( it ain’t cheap) and his e-mail was full of stuff like that. If you handle all finances then you would have found something by now. But … You can purchase a visa gift card at walmart and use itfor phone sex…. I don’t k ow how carefully you monitored all of his purchases. You can bet he has cruised the sites and at least given them some info….
It just burns me up .. Idiots having phone sex when their wife is in their bed!! Geez…
April 11, 2012 at 6:58 pm #33515kmf
MemberYeah…I must say I really don’t get the whole phone sex thing…..it seems even lamer than porn or hookers. 😉 Jesus…are there any sane men out there? I mean what kind of people are driving these industries? Karen xx
April 11, 2012 at 7:57 pm #33516972
MemberI swear Karen I don’t know!! I found phone sex charges of over 200$ a “session” and H actually told me it was for the women to berate him??? ” oh you bad boy, worthless piece of shit” type stuff. I would have done that for free:)
Too weird to contemplate. Sickness at it’s core.
April 11, 2012 at 8:33 pm #33517anniem
MemberOh man, Bev.. you really made me laugh out loud.. Thanks for that. xoxo
April 11, 2012 at 8:34 pm #33518kimberely
MemberYou know they’re all hot cute and thin on the other end of the phone right?? There’s no way they could be 300 lb butt ugly chicks trying to make a buck. Wink wink!!
April 11, 2012 at 8:35 pm #33519kimberely
MemberBev I laughed too about you doing it for free.
April 11, 2012 at 8:49 pm #33520972
MemberYep, for all of us out there wondering how to make some money…..phone sex seems to be the ticket. Google some phrases and count the money. If only I had figured this out before I paid for college… sigh:)
April 11, 2012 at 9:14 pm #33521kimberely
MemberMakes the boob job I got 15 years ago seem so wasted now 🙂
April 11, 2012 at 9:20 pm #33522debinca
ParticipantI didn’t know mine was into phone sex until now. He did admit to cruising for “just the right” granny hooker on various sites (can’t remember the name of them). Maybe the phone sex thing will be on in his disclosure (that he’s not ever going to give me).
My SAH used to take out $300 from the ATM once or twice a week for years (he likes the “live” variety). I used to ask him to account for it for budgeting purposes and he kept saying that it was for “coffee”. That’s a helluva lot of cups of coffee! I should go back and add it all up and see how much the granny whores got from us in the name of Starbucks.
Bev – you crack me up!
Deb
April 11, 2012 at 9:22 pm #33523bonnieb
ParticipantIm not sure how lucative it really is. This was my husbands specialty before taking it “live” and he was always able to get it for free. He has always found the mix of money and sex distasteful (can you see my eyes rolling into the back of my head). I told him at least someone who is paying is being more honest and not preying on pathetic women with low self esteem. Though I admit, not sure how correct that statement is, but wanted to paint the predatory picture of his internet trolling that I do think is accurate.
April 11, 2012 at 9:32 pm #33524kimberely
MemberDeb sounds like his cups of joe were actually cups of blow….coffee, yeah right!!!
April 11, 2012 at 9:56 pm #33525972
MemberFunny Bonnie, mine equated the price with class or success or some such crap. He did not bargain hunt except for the lovely gals he picked up in bars. I suppose that cost him a couple of beers…. Fun times.. Somebody please tell me again why he is still alive and living in my home!!!
April 11, 2012 at 9:59 pm #33526972
MemberDeb, the phone sex is because they have some kind of inferiority complex and the gal on the phone is nothing but adoring and pliant…Not much to prove on a phone!
April 11, 2012 at 11:05 pm #33527nap
Participant“Youre such a bad boy, you need a good spanking”
(pukex1000)
April 11, 2012 at 11:07 pm #33528nap
ParticipantGranny phone sex: “You’re such a bad boy, I’m going make you oatmeal cookies”.
April 11, 2012 at 11:09 pm #33529nap
Participant……with raisins.
April 12, 2012 at 12:00 am #33530liza
ParticipantNap, you’ve missed your calling as a Stand-Up Comic 😉
April 12, 2012 at 12:05 am #33531nap
Participant“Oh dear, I forgot the nuts!”
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