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Greg picked Lola up from lacrosse practice last night and took her to Chipotle to eat. When he brought her home, he went on and on about the case of the three girls who were abducted and held for ten years. On and on about how horrible those men are and how the families must have suffered and what should be done as punishment. I wanted to take scissors and stab him in the jugular while I screamed, YOU STOLE MORE THAN TEN YEARS OF MY LIFE!!!! YOU KEPT INFORMATION FROM ME THAT PREVENTED ME FROM MAKING DECISIONS ABOUT MY OWN FUTURE, ABOUT MY CHILDREN, ABOUT MY CAREER!!!!YOU SIGNED ME UP TO LIVE YOUR LIE, ROBBING ME OF A TRUE EXISTENCE. YOU SUBJECTED ME TO DISEASE AND HEARTACHE AND ABUSE! HOW DARE YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF BETTER THAN THOSE MEN!
God help me, I’m so mad.
I hear ya, March. Nothing peeves me more than to hear my SA comment about something on the news like he’s some innocent MF who probably did the same thing.
In some aspects what our Hs did is worse – at least that evil asshole in Cleveland never pretended to be the women’s true love. He was an out and out abuser, not an abuser in disguise.
That story is so sad and tragic – thank goodness those girls are alive. I read today that the main guy says he is a Sex Addict and had FOO issues. What I take from this is that what he did is in the same vein as what our guys do/have done – albeit to the extreme – so they should in no way think they are better than him. What pure manipulative horse shit for March’s h to put himself above that guy! He thinks by comparing himself to him, he looks better? WTF!
“So let’s discuss how you contributed to your abduction, kidnapping and repeated rapes over the last decade. Are you ready to admit your part in his addiction?”
Sickening how these guys sit in judgement and always fail to include themselves in the pool of sick depraved creeps!
“YOU STOLE MORE THAN TEN YEARS OF MY LIFE!!!! YOU KEPT INFORMATION FROM ME THAT PREVENTED ME FROM MAKING DECISIONS ABOUT MY OWN FUTURE, ABOUT MY CHILDREN, ABOUT MY CAREER!!!!YOU SIGNED ME UP TO LIVE YOUR LIE, ROBBING ME OF A TRUE EXISTENCE. YOU SUBJECTED ME TO DISEASE AND HEARTACHE AND ABUSE! HOW DARE YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF BETTER THAN THOSE MEN!”
I couldn’t agree with you more, March. I REALLY don’t know where they get off…oh wait, yes I do. In the parking lot.
I suppose you cannot stab him in the jugular, but I hope you said the rest of it, because it is ALL true.
I think our/my h would have done that to me if he could have gotten away with it. Don’t you think there are women stuck in abusive marriages who have to put out at the whim of their SA h’s or is that a totally different issue. I fucking hate horny men.
I think if you actually hit the jugular then you only have about 30 seconds before death so talk fast when you kill him 🙂
I have been offline since I saw the news about that. I went into a tailspin because one of the victims looked like one of the women who is in two shots on the collection of my SJ’s torture porn. I don’t have that stuff, now, so I couldn’t check my memory against it. But those pics are so seared into my brain I don’t doubt them much. I won’t describe the photos.
When I was still spiraling down, I compared the times, and it could have been. I wondered after I woke up whether I should call the police there and say I suspected that monster had sold pics of the victims on the internet. Then I figured, the pic I had was several years old, and tracing it would be impossible. No proof, why put myself into that position, to have to answer all those questions? It couldn’t help the victims, they are free. It might even scar them worse, to know that. I decided not to.
I am starting to function again.
Oh dear God Lynn! I am so sorry. What a fucking nightmare for those women and for you. I hope they kill that man!
The night I saw it, there was a movement among the neighbors to burn the house down. They didn’t want the reminder there, on their street, of what had happened. I get it.
What do you do if your reminder is your husband?
It’s just so over.
Lynn,
I read your post earlier today. Wanted to respond but had to walk away for a while. What a terrible thing to have to deal with. My heart goes out to you. I just want to cry for all of us, floundering in this hell we have to live through.For what it’s worth, I think you made a smart decision. The women are free. That monster will never see the light of day.
Hurting with you,
KandiceThank you, Kandice, and FC and Trish. I appreciate the validation. Making those decisions is so tough.
My SJ is volunteering with a church to do sound, now, and I want to scream NOOOOO, don’t let him be with the youth unsupervised. What can I do? They already know he’s “in recovery”. Everything else I say will just be disgruntled wife spouting hateful unforgiving exaggerations. You have to see it to believe it, and I pray they never do.
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