That really pisses me off at the churches ( it doesn’t take much) but to put anyone in any kind of “recovery” with young people just makes me see red. Churches owe more to their young people. Young people are NOT there to be used for any recovery.
I believe that anyone working around underage kids should have to be polygraphed.
He passed the polygraph and he was lying about the torture porn (and I only know that because of stumbling on it, who knows what other poly answers were lies with him). It wouldn’t matter. I’d go with the first thought, NOBODY in recovery with youth, period.