Send a letter to his office?

First I say it is better to ask forgiveness than permission meaning do it if you want.

Secondly, I would send it to the highest person or persons you can and then suggest to them that they subscribe to Eblaster if they doubt you or if they would like their own proof,

I would also happily provide a brief synopsis of what all Eblaster does. 🙂

Kat, it would be really tempting to inform his office, especially in a situation where he’s making himself the poor sad victim. But I don’t know if I’d actually do it. My gut says it wouldn’t be a good idea. My gut also says that things might play out where he’ll get found out anyway, without you even having to be involved. But in the end, you gotta go with your own gut. xoxo

I outed the swine’s misbehavior with the trash temp to his senior staffer at the center he runs. I only knew a small fraction at that time of what he had done. The senior staffer wasn’t surprised because she had suspected something fishy with the temp slut. But the swine acted quickly to do damage control, framing it all in the context of me “bringing our personal problems into the workplace” and insisting that the trash temp was a lesbian. I do not know whether or not his staff bought it, but the trash slut did not stay long afterward. I totally understand the urge to out him, and I don’t regret doing it, but know that he’ll connive to “contextualize” it to neutralize whatever was exposed, and cast you in a bad light. Unfortunately my experience has not been that “these things come out on their own” – someone has to lift up the carpet to reveal the mold growing underneath. The narc injury payback is usually vicious though.