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November 21, 2013 at 1:56 pm #8735
desiree-larson
MemberIsn’t today the hearing date?
Claire WE ARE WITH YOU IN LOVE and SUPPORT.
November 21, 2013 at 2:16 pm #117536972
MemberThey postponed the date Desiree. Claire is pretty bummed about it. It’s still a good idea to send her good thoughts today 🙂
November 21, 2013 at 2:20 pm #117537lynng2
ParticipantYes, it is. Waiting is so hard, when you thought you finally made it to the end.
Hugs and love, Claire.
November 21, 2013 at 2:29 pm #117538desiree-larson
MemberI was wondering why there was no hub hub about today. Sheeeeeeeeeesh!
Well then, sending condolences.
Fuck that!
November 21, 2013 at 2:31 pm #117539nap
ParticipantThinking of you dear sister Claire.
Love, NapxoNovember 21, 2013 at 3:05 pm #117540monique
ParticipantHang in there Claire. This is tough but so are you dear sister. 🙂
Hugs
MoniqueNovember 21, 2013 at 4:52 pm #117541cbslife
MemberThank you sisters for your love and support.
It’s a cold rainy day. How appropriate, right? He is gone to the hearing right now, I’m at home.
I’ve already pissed him off by not letting him take my car to the hearing. He eluded to the fact last night that his pickup truck was killing his back, so I left a note by the coffee maker last night that I needed my vehicle today, so please don’t take it today. I also, in that note, asked him to please let me know the results of the hearing via text as soon as he gets out.
What I’m nervous about now is that he’s likely coming back home right after the hearing and he will not be in a good mood. That’s when he usually takes it out on me. With it raining outside he won’t be able to do any work.
Oh well, maybe I’ll just take off and do some shopping!
I’ll let you know as soon as i know anything.
Much love to you all . . . Claire
November 21, 2013 at 5:05 pm #117542lisak
Participantclaire, is it possible for you to have someone else be there to get the information and then pass it to you while you are at a spa getting your nails done after a facial and massage?
love you girl, take care of yourself however you are able today..
November 21, 2013 at 5:10 pm #117543cbslife
MemberLisa, if the courthouse was in town I’d have my neighbor go but it’s an hour away. No family here and I wouldn’t feel right asking someone else to do that. Trust me, I’ve already thought of that! If my sister lived nearby, she’d be there in a heartbeat, in fact she’d probably cause a scene in the courthouse! But she’s in Florida and I’m in California.
I do need a haircut, maybe I’ll call and see if I can get in.
I don’t have any fingernails left to have a manicure, not even enough stubs to put on fake ones. I tried the fake ones and ended up with a fungus, now doctor says no nail polish, not even clear until the fungus clears up. So I can’t even scratch an itch without fingernails! This stress can’t be good for me at all.
November 21, 2013 at 5:19 pm #117544nap
ParticipantClaire I thought the next step was the sentencing (which I know was postponed) so I’m not understanding what the hearing is about???
November 21, 2013 at 5:22 pm #117545cbslife
MemberThis hearing is to reschedule the sentencing date. Only the judge can set the date.
November 21, 2013 at 5:38 pm #117546nap
ParticipantOk I see now. I hope it is set soon!
November 21, 2013 at 5:40 pm #117547cbslife
MemberI just got a text from him that he just got out of court and it has been rescheduled to Dec. 11th.
I asked him if he got a copy of the pre-sentencing report and he replied, yes. I’m looking forward to reading that.
Well, all I can hope for now, today, is that the sun comes out and he leaves to go to work. 🙂
Thank you all for standing by me during the tough times. I love you all very much.
November 21, 2013 at 7:02 pm #117548sandy
ParticipantI am so sorry you have to endure this. Will be praying that time passes quickly for you.
November 21, 2013 at 7:11 pm #117549diane
ParticipantSending you lots of Light, Claire, and a giant hug for a very brave woman.
November 21, 2013 at 7:43 pm #117550desiree-larson
MemberWondering if he will let you read “the document”.
November 21, 2013 at 9:01 pm #117551cbslife
MemberI wonder that, too, Desiree. I doubt he will voluntarily give it to me. He’s still not home and since it’s 1pm I doubt I will see him until late tonight if he does as he usually does.
My guess is the scenario will go one of two ways.
1 – He will get home late, say he left the document in the truck and is too tired to go out and get it . . . or
2 – He will leave it in his pick up but bring home the pump truck that usually lives at his best friends house.Hopefully I’ll be presently surprised and he will bring it in with him tonight and throw it at me!
I hope he stays away till really late tonight.
I’m so happy to have you guys to chat with during these tough times. Thank you.
November 21, 2013 at 9:20 pm #117552diane
ParticipantIt’s a total privilege, Claire, to be walking with you through this. Thank you for letting us in. I hope it’s not too tough tonight.
d.xoNovember 21, 2013 at 9:23 pm #117553arleighburke
MemberWith you all the way Claire.
November 21, 2013 at 9:45 pm #117554daisy1962
MemberDecember 11 isn’t TOO awful. I hope you can get your hands on that sentencing report one way or the other. You are one tough broad Ms Claire and I mean that as a compliment. You will get through this and we will be right there beside you the entire way.
Much Love,
DaisyNovember 21, 2013 at 10:39 pm #117555trish
ParticipantI am so glad it will be over before Christmas. I hate that it was delayed but your strength and courage continue to amaze me Claire. You are quite a woman. He is quite an asshole.
November 21, 2013 at 11:08 pm #117556972
MemberWe are here for you Claire.
November 21, 2013 at 11:19 pm #117557liza
ParticipantYep, we’ve got your back.
November 22, 2013 at 12:28 am #117558cbslife
MemberHe just text me and said he’s on his way home and asked if we need anything. So I told him to bring home dinner! Just some burger and fries, nothing great!
I’ll keep you posted. You all have made me cry, but it’s been a good cry. 🙂
p.s. My neighbor called me to the fence when I was out feeding and invited me over for Thanksgiving dinner but said my H couldn’t come! Funny!
November 22, 2013 at 1:10 am #117559daisy1962
MemberThat’s awesome! I hope you go Claire. If you’re feeling really generous you can leave him a turkey TV dinner. 😀
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