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    Isn’t today the hearing date?

    Claire WE ARE WITH YOU IN LOVE and SUPPORT.

    #117536
    972
    Member

    They postponed the date Desiree. Claire is pretty bummed about it. It’s still a good idea to send her good thoughts today 🙂

    #117537
    lynng2
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    Yes, it is. Waiting is so hard, when you thought you finally made it to the end.

    Hugs and love, Claire.

    #117538

    I was wondering why there was no hub hub about today. Sheeeeeeeeeesh!

    Well then, sending condolences.

    Fuck that!

    #117539
    nap
    Participant

    Thinking of you dear sister Claire.
    Love, Napxo

    #117540
    monique
    Participant

    Hang in there Claire. This is tough but so are you dear sister. 🙂

    Hugs
    Monique

    #117541
    cbslife
    Member

    Thank you sisters for your love and support.

    It’s a cold rainy day. How appropriate, right? He is gone to the hearing right now, I’m at home.

    I’ve already pissed him off by not letting him take my car to the hearing. He eluded to the fact last night that his pickup truck was killing his back, so I left a note by the coffee maker last night that I needed my vehicle today, so please don’t take it today. I also, in that note, asked him to please let me know the results of the hearing via text as soon as he gets out.

    What I’m nervous about now is that he’s likely coming back home right after the hearing and he will not be in a good mood. That’s when he usually takes it out on me. With it raining outside he won’t be able to do any work.

    Oh well, maybe I’ll just take off and do some shopping!

    I’ll let you know as soon as i know anything.

    Much love to you all . . . Claire

    #117542
    lisak
    Participant

    claire, is it possible for you to have someone else be there to get the information and then pass it to you while you are at a spa getting your nails done after a facial and massage?

    love you girl, take care of yourself however you are able today..

    #117543
    cbslife
    Member

    Lisa, if the courthouse was in town I’d have my neighbor go but it’s an hour away. No family here and I wouldn’t feel right asking someone else to do that. Trust me, I’ve already thought of that! If my sister lived nearby, she’d be there in a heartbeat, in fact she’d probably cause a scene in the courthouse! But she’s in Florida and I’m in California.

    I do need a haircut, maybe I’ll call and see if I can get in.

    I don’t have any fingernails left to have a manicure, not even enough stubs to put on fake ones. I tried the fake ones and ended up with a fungus, now doctor says no nail polish, not even clear until the fungus clears up. So I can’t even scratch an itch without fingernails! This stress can’t be good for me at all.

    #117544
    nap
    Participant

    Claire I thought the next step was the sentencing (which I know was postponed) so I’m not understanding what the hearing is about???

    #117545
    cbslife
    Member

    This hearing is to reschedule the sentencing date. Only the judge can set the date.

    #117546
    nap
    Participant

    Ok I see now. I hope it is set soon!

    #117547
    cbslife
    Member

    I just got a text from him that he just got out of court and it has been rescheduled to Dec. 11th.

    I asked him if he got a copy of the pre-sentencing report and he replied, yes. I’m looking forward to reading that.

    Well, all I can hope for now, today, is that the sun comes out and he leaves to go to work. 🙂

    Thank you all for standing by me during the tough times. I love you all very much.

    #117548
    sandy
    Participant

    I am so sorry you have to endure this. Will be praying that time passes quickly for you.

    #117549
    diane
    Participant

    Sending you lots of Light, Claire, and a giant hug for a very brave woman.

    #117550

    Wondering if he will let you read “the document”.

    #117551
    cbslife
    Member

    I wonder that, too, Desiree. I doubt he will voluntarily give it to me. He’s still not home and since it’s 1pm I doubt I will see him until late tonight if he does as he usually does.

    My guess is the scenario will go one of two ways.
    1 – He will get home late, say he left the document in the truck and is too tired to go out and get it . . . or
    2 – He will leave it in his pick up but bring home the pump truck that usually lives at his best friends house.

    Hopefully I’ll be presently surprised and he will bring it in with him tonight and throw it at me!

    I hope he stays away till really late tonight.

    I’m so happy to have you guys to chat with during these tough times. Thank you.

    #117552
    diane
    Participant

    It’s a total privilege, Claire, to be walking with you through this. Thank you for letting us in. I hope it’s not too tough tonight.
    d.xo

    #117553
    arleighburke
    Member

    With you all the way Claire.

    #117554
    daisy1962
    Member

    December 11 isn’t TOO awful. I hope you can get your hands on that sentencing report one way or the other. You are one tough broad Ms Claire and I mean that as a compliment. You will get through this and we will be right there beside you the entire way.

    Much Love,
    Daisy

    #117555
    trish
    Participant

    I am so glad it will be over before Christmas. I hate that it was delayed but your strength and courage continue to amaze me Claire. You are quite a woman. He is quite an asshole.

    #117556
    972
    Member

    We are here for you Claire.

    #117557
    liza
    Participant

    Yep, we’ve got your back.

    #117558
    cbslife
    Member

    He just text me and said he’s on his way home and asked if we need anything. So I told him to bring home dinner! Just some burger and fries, nothing great!

    I’ll keep you posted. You all have made me cry, but it’s been a good cry. 🙂

    p.s. My neighbor called me to the fence when I was out feeding and invited me over for Thanksgiving dinner but said my H couldn’t come! Funny!

    #117559
    daisy1962
    Member

    That’s awesome! I hope you go Claire. If you’re feeling really generous you can leave him a turkey TV dinner. 😀

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