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I didn’t actually have sex with her bc I lost my erection as soon as I entered her. I was thinking of you and that is what made me lose my erection. I was afraid you would leave me if you found out about it.
Also, the multitudes of “probably” and “maybe” statements, along with “sometimes” when I asked him questions.
The reading my mind thing too. He thought he knew more about how I felt than I did.
“Do you really think I’m that kind of man?” (In an angry, irritated tone – clearly to be followed by “I’m done with you” if I said yes)
“I would have TOLD you if I did something like that; I would never have let it go on this long with you digging and suffering”
“The phone hackers timed the hooker calls so there was no overlap with my other phone just to frame me; just like they timed the calls to match my work schedule, they hacked into my online calendar”
“The fact that I lied to you about the clinic tests shows our marriage is over; I don’t trust you enough to tell you the truth”
“I got tested because I was afraid the disease you gave me (26 years ago, which HE assumed was a STD) had come back”
“You’re an abusive aggressive bully”
“Neither of us meant to be unprofessional in our friendliness” (reiterated multiple times about the bimbo trash temp w/the criminal record)
“You’re just not interesting to me anymore. I have no passion for you. You deserve a man who’s madly in love with you and that’s not me. (Found this out after 26 years). Any man would want you Arleigh, just not me.”
“Let’s keep doing the things we do well together, like at work. We’re good friends but marriage isn’t for us.” (=I want to keep using you at work to make me look good, trade on your name and save face, while fucking as many hookers and tramps as I want with no consequences)
I could go on.
Oh my goodness – I’d forgotten these! Guess that means I’ve moved on a bit.
We could add the “recovery sayings” now…
Yesterday’s was an absolute classic…
“I don’t believe sex addiction exists – its a set of behaviours to numb the stuff I haven’t learned to deal with – the low self-esteem, the fear and the anger”
mmmm…. direct from the horse’s mouth my dears!
” you have never really loved me.”
“I have never really felt your love.”
” I have never lived up to the man you really wanted.”
” I can’t win! No matter what I do I can’t win! All you do is beat me down.”
” I can’t take your abuse anymore. This has got to stop!”
” You’re going to regret being so mean to me one day.”
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