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  • #7650
    pam-c
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    Hi sisters it has been awile since i have posted. Me and daughter are doing well
    I had to share somdthing. Exsah was diagnosed syphilis.

    No one will ever convince me that staying married to these guyd is even remotely safe.
    A year agp news like that would hurt and devastate me. Now i count my bblessings i am no longer exposed go his risks.
    Btw he does not take it
    Seriously enough to change his lifestyle. Cuz its treatable and curable.

    #96330
    bonnieb
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    Wow Pam, unbelievable. Thank goodness you are out of his destructive orbit! xoxo

    #96331
    courtney
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    Good grief! Who gets syphillis in the USA in 2013 and doesn’t think that’s a wake up call??? Why do you think he told you that, Pam? Do you think he thinks he had it a long time and exposed you to it? I’m trying to think of another reason that would even begin to explain why he told you that?

    #96332
    pam-c
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    Hi courtney
    Well i think he got sort of trapped into telling me. He had a swollen lymph node under his chin. Plus a bad wht looked like a canker sore. I told him to go the dr for lymph node. He did. First he told me he had strep. But i did not believe cuz they shot him full of mega anyi biotics. So i std. I think he told me cuz hes relieved its
    not hiv. But who knows why he tells me anything. He has this need to vonfess. Cant explain

    #96333
    pam-c
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    I was not exposed haven’t slept w that dummy in over 16 months.

    The syphilis was caught early so his contact w it was recent.

    Yuck. Whats next? F&)&ng leprosy!!! Who the fuck gets syphilis. Only 55000 cases in us per year are diagnosed with syphilis.

    Thats not a lot. I hope he calls his most recent contacts to share the news. Like eeeeewww

    #96334
    eliza
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    So scary. Sexuality inside a marriage is totally different than drugs and alcohol. I wish the courts would get that.

    #96335
    pam-c
    Participant

    Its sexist for sure

    #96336
    kmf
    Member

    Good Lord Pam.

    #96337
    kmf
    Member

    So much for safe sex. Must be a real upscale crowd he runs with? What was it his family said about you being low class for calling the police? Hahahahahahahah. You couldn’t even sink low enough to be in his class.
    Hugs, karen

    #96338
    lisak
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    wowzers. do any of these guys run with upscale crowds? mine sure didn’t. crack addicts. blow jobs for $20. intercourse for $40. i’m sure he could have easily gotten syphillis. i hope that doesn’t trigger anyone. i only include this information to reinforce what pam is saying –

    ‘No one will ever convince me that (having sex with) these guys is even remotely safe.’

    #96339
    pam-c
    Participant

    Yeah does anyone know an upscale sa crowd? I am having a party this weekend . Free anti biotics for everyone. Ill be sure to invite exsahs friends.

    #96340
    teri
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    Pam, so glad you are safe from his STD’s anyway. But worried about your daughter with him and his low life crowd. How is visitation going?

    #96341
    pam-c
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    Hi terri so far the schedule works. No over nights. Also doesnt bring it into house. He goes out for that. But i guess he will be layin low since hes contagious still.
    So far so good w daughter. But as always tht cld change. Itsay by day living and monitoring. I am friendly enough w him to keep monitoring as much as i can

    #96342
    lynng2
    Participant

    So glad you weren’t exposed. What an awful discovery. Glad he got treatment early. Once it goes in remission it can cause hellish damage when it finally goes tertiary.

    #96343
    joann
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    Pam, next time don’t tell him to go to the doctor. 😉

    #96344
    nap
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    Pam,
    Geez. I’m happy you are okay. It’s nice to see you on the site I hope you and your daughter are doing well and still enjoying your new place.
    Love, Nap

    #96345
    liza
    Participant

    Thanks for the update Pam!

    #96346
    harmony1
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    fucking disgusting idiot, you are right Pam, no one gets syphili any more, yuck, yuck, yuck

    I would want to snatch my children from being around a man who gets syphilis, but I guess the idiot court system does not see it that way

    #96347
    gail
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    Hi Pam
    you still need to have yourself checked and have your papsmear though. even if you slept with him so long ago, i only had a papsmear recently also never slept with him for a long time and now they think i could have sexual infection. there is also a lesion on my cervix which i will have biopsied on 16 july, so do have your check too if you havent already had it. my soon to be ex sa took me off his medical plan so i was not cautious to go and now i am sorry

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