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H and I were watching a video last night, and a scene came on where a woman’s breasts were bare. H turned to me and asked if we could watch something else. That’s a switch. He even took the video out and gave it directly to me, with the case, to take back so I wouldn’t wonder if he watched it, alone, later.
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And he hasn’t asked for his cell back. When it rings I give it to him, he checks texts and messages with the screen in front of me, and voice messages on speaker, makes all return calls on speaker with me in the room, then gives it right back to me.
Well, it seems like he’s making an effort, Lynn. It’s just so hard to know whether to trust it, I know. It’s really up to you. I hope he’s in some kind of treatment/therapy, because that might make it more believable. All I can say is trust your gut.
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D.Lynng-Sounds like he is making an effort. Just keep your eyes open, as my therapist advised me to do. Think of things like he could have another cell phone from Wal-Mart (pay by minute) or he could be conning you about the video, and as you say could watch it later. Just be careful and as Diane says trust your gut. I have seen every trick in the book from Steve and going through a divorce right now, I probably wouldn’t give any of them the benefit of the doubt. I just want you to be careful and not become naive’ until you know for sure. Some of them just get better at hiding it. I hope you h isn’t.
Love,SharronYes, H has a CSAT therapist, and a support group that meets weekly and he meets one of the guys from that personally when he has issues mid-week.
I’m scared to draw a breathe of relief, yes. But it’s so much more than before, and I’m NOT fighting for it. When I got the meds, I told H this is his fight, I was done.
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