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Hi, I just wanted to say I am kinda religious- but I think the issue here is you saying “you will have hell to pay for if you don’t go?” wow! crazy! He seems very controlling and is he the sa? He is demanding church but is unfit within his own conscience and heart- Jesus calls them hypocrites and it’s not pretty how he thinks or feels about them! Do yourself a favor and do what YOU want! Screw him- excuse my expression. Anyway I will say a little prayer for you because that is not right and God sees this and knows how backwards this is- he can’t fool you or god- he may fool others and himself even but he can’t hide.
I use 911 calls all the time in determining who the aggressor is on family disputes. It’s not uncommon to be driving to a call while the 911 operator is adding comments that say male can be heard cussing or yelling or female is yelling plz stop hitting me or a neighbor is reporting hearing one being louder than the other. When I arrive and find everyone cool as a cucumber with one or both denying anything was going on then guess what? I take the male for assault, because it was all on a recorded line. Sometimes the female goes if our information leads in that direction.
These guys, and some gals too, think they are so slick.
Recorded lines don’t lie and I incorporate that info into my arrest report, to have the Det pull those tapes later as evidence, and they will do just that.
Kim,
When i called the police the time he threw hot soup and tea all over me, he was only asked to leave. The officer told me to go file an RO, but did not arrest him. He was only asked to leave. While they were there he took my PC. I said to the officer he snatched the pc out of my hands. The officer said it is a marital assett. He couldnt do anything. I have told the lady at the court house all of this.
I am religous also Alice Marie. My bible says whoremongers shall not enter into the gates of heaven. It is really hard when you are in a situation like thus because sometimes church furthers these guys agendas. They take things out of context like the women shall submit to her husband and the husband is the spiritual leader of the home. I probably need to speak with a pastor. I do have an appointment with a therapist. I am thinking she is going to be a GOD send for me because ahe specializes in women like me that are overaccomodating etc. Take care Alice. Thanks again for the info Kim.
The problem for the most part is he does this crap when I am trying to leave. The destroying property stuff.
I think I take that back Alice. I beleve in GOD. I believe in the bible. I am not sure I am religious because the religion I have known overlooks lust and excuses it as a sin of the flesh. They are all sins of the flesh. I dont think men in the church are as willing to overlook other sins such as a thief when the offering plate is passed.
SOT,
I say this with lots of love. You are not ‘overaccomidating’, you’re a battered woman with battered womans syndrome. You need help to get out of the cycle of abuse you are in and I hope you seek it soon.
Love, napHere in Texas, throwing liquids at another and snatching things from ones hands equals assault….offensive contact.
I can’t believe nothing was done to him.
A month ago a woman was charged with assaulting me. She was on the phone and I took it from her to have her turn around so I could handcuff her for a warrant she had out. She claimed to speak no English. In that moment after I took the phone from her, she roughly snatched it out of my hands yelling “That’s MY phone!!” in perfect English.
That did not end well for her.
No they didnt Kimberley. This is a Very small town and he dropped a few names. To add insult to injury when he left he took my jeep and his truck keys. So I couldnt leave. No more of this crap …
Hey there Sot, I am deeply sorry if my post came across wrong. I did not intend to sound self righteous! I intended to VALIDATE you NOT WANTING TO GO TO CHURCH! I meant that as a catholic myself- and we have a serious commitment to go to church on sundays ( i don’t always go! lol) I meant to say that I thought it was abusive how he was acting. Anyway sorry! 🙂
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