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Hi Cindy,
I think you son’s wedding is this weekend and I just want you to know I’m thinking of you.
Love ya, napxxooThank you NAP,
You are so kind. I am signing on for the first time since the wedding and trying to do a little catching up. When I saw your post to me I felt so taken care of.
The wedding was very beautiful. The highlight was dancing the mother/son dance and having my son tell me the most beautiful things a mother could hear. It was a very difficult day, week and year. I am still recovering. Will catch you up on all of the interesting events that took place that have added to my heavy heart. SA was in full blown mode including leaving the wedding early with out saying goodbye to anyone. My son wanted us to sit at the same table at the reception for dinner, and so I agreed to. SA basically ignored me and opted to talk and pay “attention” to his friends girlfriend instead. I just sat and quietly observed his behavior and could not believe that his friend allows this to happen right under his nose.
There are no words. Just a sense of bewilderment and sadness.
WTF?
Hi Cindy,
Im happy to hear the wedding was beautiful and the mother son dance so special. I know this must have been bittersweet for you especially at the reception. WTF describes their behavior so well…I dont think I’ll ever fully understand the mind of a SA. Sorry for your sadness and want you to know I was thinking of you and missed you. Take good care of yourself Cindy 🙂 love, nap xxooHi Cindy,
Glad to hear the wedding was great, what song did you pick for the mother son dance?As far as the SA. I cannot remember for sure what your situation is? But if I recall you are seperated and you had been agonizing over what to do…get a divorce or try to work on it with him? Well I think you got your answer by his behavior at the wedding. That was a chance for him, of course really every day is a chance, but you were right there. I am sorry. But it sounds like your h has not changed in anyway. Much like my h. We deserve someone who loves us and wants to be with us.
Catch us up when you get a chance,
Love, FloraHi Cindy1111- So happy the wedding went well, and you had some touching moments with your’e son. Isn’t it sad your’e husband had to ruin such a beautiful time.
I agree with Flora – your’e husband hasn’t changed any. I would get the hell out of Dodge.
Sending Love your way.Hi Cindy,
So glad the wedding went well. My 19 year old son just got engaged. He has said some of the sweetest things to me also…pretty tenderhearted. I LOVE that your son validated some beautiful things about you. Being a mother is such a huge job, and to feel connected to our children is what it is all about, and I guess that they are functioning citizens also, LOL. Anyway, glad you had some nice times. Sad that your h or ex-h was rude. His loss-just showed his poor character off to yet more people. Hugs, B. Trayed
Cindy,
It’s sad that life with an SA can mean having some stress/anxiety added to every special occasion. Just one more thing we have to work at–keeping it special, fun, and not letting the ugliness get in the way. I hope as time goes on, the happy memories of your son’s day will be in the forefront of your mind! Forget the other nonsense as much as you can–you didn’t ask for it!And B.trayed, congrats to you too!!
Love, ZG
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