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I am so sick of this, I just want to trash all the papers I have collected over this period. Anything with reference to SA. All the disclosures. All the journals I’ve written.
I know the attny said they help to establish probablity of SA having an affair if I get more evidence. But that evidence is strong enough to stand alone, and all this other stuff is useless without it. The weight of it is suffocating. Without a picture or witness putting him alone with another woman after our wedding, they’re just more pain without a key out. I just don’t care anymore, it all is a big fat “Sucker” stamp on my forehead and I’m sick of being the victim.
Would you trash all that ‘evidence’?
Why or why not?
No!!! Because my L used stuff I never would have kept but just happen to. They want you ( mine did) bring everytjing in and they end up keeping alot. My opinion is to keep it and I would put it all in a safety deposit box in your name only. My h found slot of my evidence and destroyed it.
Put it somewhere safe, where you don’t have to see it. I think you’ll regret it later on if you throw it out.
No keep it. Put it in a box and file it away if you want. I still keep my evidence. YOu never know why or how you may need it, but keep it. Something could come up four years from now…for some reason. But i would put it away in a box, somewhere you know you will find it, and its protected.
Love,
FloraAgree. Keep it. But put it in a special box. The intention is that the negative energy of it all is contained by the box, and it has no power to float through your life.
Ok, so it’s off to find the most ugly box in the world.
Thanks ladies, for keeping me from losing something valuable due to irrational emotional thinking.
Just feel like scraping all this off like a snake loses it’s skin, ya know?
Lynn,
I know it’s hard. You just want to erase that ugliness. Great ideas here–find a solid, box–maybe even a heavy fireproof safe–and contain all of that stuff in there, and put it out of site. A safe deposit box is a great idea too!!
Thinking of you!
xoxoPs and send a copy of everything to a trusted friend or relative. I wish I had. After my h kick me to the curb and changed the locks, he ransacked all my stuff. I had it all well hidden and he found it anyway, never to be seen again.
There you go Lynn. Nap’s experience says it all. Do not give up ANYTHING that might help you later. It may not be enough for the divorce but it sure will be when he screws up and he is SO going to screw up.
My brother scanned all my evidence and copied it to a thumb drive….then we had a Bonfire and roasted…… Weenies….. >:)
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