Although the title ‘How to help your spouse heal from your affair’ would suggest it refers to a single crisis, it actually addresses sexual betrayal in general as well This book was recommended online and it is a very concise (93pages) guide for cheaters and sex addicts to understand the damage they have wrought INCLUDING before d-day when the spouse simply felt neglected and how they can acknowledge the pain and navigate through it with love. It spoke so clearly to what I felt and I put it into my husbands hands as soon as I finished it (in an evening).
Wow, sounds like a great one! I am interested. Including the part about how much damage is done BEFORE d-day is crucial. I look at the sexual betrayal as just one of the many symptoms these men have. Obviously, if they can lie, betray, deceive, and repeatedly forget their vows, there has been A LOT of mistreatment prior to d-day!!!
Sounds great…B. Trayed
B.T.,
I think your husband needs to read this book. Maybe it would help him see things from your point of view. Do you think he would read it? It sounds really good.
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