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Please welcome our newest Sister, BonnieBlue246. Bonnie wrote in her profile:
Experiencing spouse with alleged sexual addiction.
Welcome Bonnie, you are not alone any more as we are all here for you.
Take your time to look around, read the topics and comments and feel free to jump right in or ask any questions.
Hugs ~ JoAnn
From one Bonnie to another–welcome. I am sorry that you are in a situation that brings you here, but am glad that you have found a place of support and understanding. I turn to this site and the women here everyday for support. I hope you find it as helpful and healing as I do. Warmly, Bonnie
Thank you, Bonnie and JoAnn. I am thankful that it exists; I can recognize feeling of support. I will be glad to lessen the fog in my head.
Here’s hoping you get the clarity you’re looking for, Bonnieblue. Welcome. Now, I’m going to be thinking about Rhett Butler for the rest of the day…
Me too, March. My favorite saying is, ‘I’ll think about that tomorrow.’ Unfortunately I never do, instead I worry all night.
But GWTW is absolutely my fav book, I read it at least once a year–same with the movie. Second fav book is The Poisonwood Bible.
Both are about strong women who overcome massive obstacles–just like all of us here.
BonnieBlue posted this in Sex Addiction:
“I need advice on my combination mess. My husband is just starting to work on his SA, with significant bumps. In addition, he is set to be deployed overseas in a couple of months. The combination of the two seem like an involuntary recipe for disaster. I literally can’t tell up from down. Any advice?”
Bonnie–you need to create a topic or post within a topic (not just a group/forum) or it will get lost (noone will see it).
So now for my advice–breathe! Be gentle with yourself and find suppport (yeah! being here is part of that). I also want to remind you that his illness is NOT about you. It isnt a reflection on you as a woman or a wife. HUGS!!Welcome BonnieBlue, I’m glad to make your acquaintance, though I wish it were under different circumstances. SOS has become a lifeline for me, I know it will help you find your way too. Love, Liza
Hi Bonnie,
I’m sorry about all the stress and upheaval you have been experiencing. I hope you will find information and support here, dynamic discussion and passionate survivors! Welcome.
diane.hi bonnieblue you will find what ever you need here. read and post hold nothing back because that seems to be the best way to heal. im so sorry you are in this hell but i know first hand this site will help. looking forward to getting to know you
Welcome Bonnieblue246,
I know you will find as much compassion and support as I have found here. The fog WILL clear. It takes time; be gentle with yourself, and as the saying goes, “one day at a time.” It really does help in this situation.Hugs to you,
Julie (Zumbagirl)Bonnie,
You’ve found a wonderful group of ladies who will listen and share with compassion. Welcome and please take care of YOU while you sort all this out. Do something you love today.
Welcome, BonnieBlue. This site has been a godsend for me, and I know it will be for you too. xoxo
p.s. Your picture is so pretty. You remind me of the beautiful ice skater, Ekaterina Gordeeva.
Hello BB!!
Welcome aboard the love train! Like the other sisters, I am so sorry you have to be here, but you will be so happy to have landed here! You will find dear sisters for life! We will hold you up and support you in your darkest hours and laugh and celebrate with you as you learn and grow. Please put yourself first, above all else and take things one step at a time. You will find that each of us are in different places in our journey, but love and support each other along the way! Go to the”stories” section when you are up for it and you can read about each of us and what has brought us to JoAnn, this site, and each other. You will recognize your own personal struggles in our stories. You are not alone. You will learn that SA is a whole other world out there that you may never know existed. It does. It’s real and it SUCKS. But we will help you and you will help us and that is the beauty of this site. Everyone has something to bring to the table. We learn from each other every day. Fresh faces and perspectives are always welcome! Post away!! XOXO!!
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